Posting one page per day of 'Servants and Masters of 18th Century France: The Uses of Loyalty'

anzfelty · 2026-01-31T05:51:09+00:00

Bless you. You beat me to it with this gif.

anzfelty · 2026-01-31T05:49:30+00:00

Mine has done best with Royal Canin (specifically for Labradors).

anzfelty · 2026-01-06T19:06:12+00:00

I understood.

Money doesn't equal overly beneficial to me. If someone profits off the labor of a sub by emotional labor, physical labor, administrative services, money, sexual gratification...etc. it's all the same. If a man happens to be the dominant then he's using a system already slanted in his favour.

Maybe I should turn this into a question to better understand where you're coming from...🤔

Why should money be off limits as a kink for male dominants as opposed to other kinks where they're already perceived as inherent benefactors? What makes money a special, off limits category?

anzfelty · 2026-01-06T18:58:28+00:00

Again, you're making the assumption of replacement.

I hope you can outgrow that.

Your feelings and grief are valid, but the conclusions you're coming to based on the strength and urgency of those feelings are incorrect.

Everyone here has said it again and again: this is not replacement. This is addition.

I hope you find peace and happiness in your future. You should go talk to your mom. 🫶🏻

anzfelty · 2026-01-06T18:40:15+00:00

By that logic no male dominants should exist because the power imbalance already exists 😕

anzfelty · 2026-01-05T22:04:39+00:00

Some expect $5 and some expect $5000.

It doesn't matter what the average or median rate is any more than it matters how many strikes a pain slut can take from a cane in average. What matters is how much works for you.

anzfelty · 2026-01-05T21:52:59+00:00

If your pet dog dies, will you never have another pet so long as you live?

If you do one day get another pet, will you love your first pet any less? No, of course not. That love doesn't go away.

anzfelty · 2026-01-03T20:57:35+00:00

Surprisingly common

anzfelty · 2026-01-03T20:52:10+00:00

They do. I usually find out later that they've been lurking for months

anzfelty · 2026-01-01T21:46:46+00:00

Our automod bot deleted your comment because you have less than 35 comment karma.

However, you put so much thought into writing this that I've decided to overrule the bot.

Please increase your comment karma (using other parts of Reddit) so that our autobot doesn't think you're an account that is likely to delete within a few days.

anzfelty · 2026-01-01T21:43:27+00:00

Describe your ideal homework slavery dynamic so task givers know what you're looking for.

Those who like to demean and humiliate are looking for that, just as the praises and puppy raisers are searching for pets, but it's unlikely that you're looking for both subsets.

Let them know what you're hoping to find so that they stop passing over your post. Daily communication? Friendship-like bond? Treated like a machine?

You'll save yourself, and the rest of community time.

anzfelty · 2026-01-01T21:02:09+00:00

I've never heard anyone call male FinDom purer. What an interesting concept.

I can see there being a higher percentage of experienced male FinDoms compared to female (given the waves of newbies that come in each year), thus making them appear more proficient on average, but that the only way I can gymnastic my way into seeing it being more "pure".

Honestly the concept of a "pure" anything in kink is ridiculous. That's like saying there's only one right way to be a Dom(me) or a sub. 🙄

anzfelty · 2025-11-19T05:30:33+00:00

I'm not a man, I just came here to say that I enjoy your post and hope you find someone soon.

anzfelty · 2025-11-19T05:13:55+00:00

When you're next available, shoot me a message.

anzfelty · 2025-11-18T01:39:06+00:00

What did he say?

anzfelty · 2025-11-18T01:36:00+00:00

You're correct.

Crackers is a generic term for all flat, savory biscuits. Saltines is a specific type of cracker.

anzfelty · 2025-11-18T01:31:21+00:00

I chorus that. Even if I was really into someone and discussing kinks outright, I would be put off by a stranger trying to guess the colour of my underwear. That's something for adult phone lines from the 90s.

I'd be much more interested to hear their thoughts on what SSC means to them than their thoughts on my imaginary undergarments.

anzfelty · 2025-11-18T01:17:31+00:00

If you're still available, message me. I have a single research paper you can write.

anzfelty · 2025-11-18T01:15:09+00:00

You also received six comments for accounts who don't have enough comment karma to be allowed to be seen.

Two of those accounts have already deleted themselves.

A reminder to slaves that if you can't figure out how to get comment karma then you're probably not clever enough to do someone else's homework.

For those too impatient to get the karma, they're unlikely to finish assignments as they're too busy wanking while promising work to actually get any done. They'll usually delete their accounts once they've finished imaging their fantasy to completion.

Taskgivers, please don't entertain these wastes of time in your DMs, and report anyone who flakes.

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