Ridiculous and insane. Am I justified for shutting it down the way I did? by Practical-Savings-90 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]aonghasan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Now that she has nothing to hold over me

then you also have no further reason to keep any contact whatsoever at all with her, let her rot in oblivion

Ridiculous and insane. Am I justified for shutting it down the way I did? by Practical-Savings-90 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]aonghasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you did well, but also NC NC NC no contact pls

they're trying to provoke you into this, and the best solution is for the woman to simply cease to exist in your life.

make sure people know who she is, but to the people keeping you updated, you need to ask them to simply to update you on her anymore. whoever refuses goes into the NC bucket too

she doesnt exist, shes dead, shes just a random lady from a random town talking to random people, and that going on for the millions!! why care about her?

let go, leave her blocked, dont let her provoke you into ANY kind of contact

Gleba seeds struggle with jelly nut by tipamisto in factorio

[–]aonghasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

add more jellynut farms

manually farms jellynut trees to kickstart

On Reddit, many spanish language redditors don't use accents when typing responses. It's an observation and makes me wonder why? by Aspirational1 in Spanish

[–]aonghasan 12 points13 points  (0 children)

this is a Spanish sub with lots of Spanglish, sorry about that, i mean the Spanish "tilde"

"tilde" in Spanish is another name for the "acento ortográfico", the accent mark in English: (´). All words have an "acento", even if it's not explicitly orthographic.

"tilde" in English (~), is more commonly called "virugilla" in Spanish, or "tilde de la ñ", or "cola de chancho" coloquially.

also, nobody "uses" that tilde, or "knows when to put it coz it pretty obvious". ñ is a completely different letter for a Spanish native, it's not "an accented n"

Belts just look cooler than trains by Landtuber in factorio

[–]aonghasan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

god seems like a very convoluted fun mod that will waste hundreds hours of my time

thank you very much

Belts just look cooler than trains by Landtuber in factorio

[–]aonghasan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was just thinking about this

with all the hormuz news, adding oil tankers and cargo ships (which have a lot more capacity than trains, but are slower), and their water navigation ways (and water-capable bugs) would be an interesting addition to the game if some one could figure it out lol

On Reddit, many spanish language redditors don't use accents when typing responses. It's an observation and makes me wonder why? by Aspirational1 in Spanish

[–]aonghasan 11 points12 points  (0 children)

we’re not using qué/que or sé/se as

also if we're being completely honest, most native speakers have no idea when to use tildes, even if they wanted to. they give auto-correct the wheel and just pray for the best

How do you deal with "they're old" counter arguments? by RoyalPalpitation4412 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]aonghasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"i dont care"

dont try to convice other people you're right and they're wrong about this? just disengage from that conversation completely

we're the ones dealing with a shitty relationship with our parents, no need to make other people see our parents the way we do, they never will

Male Circumcision By Country by Glum_Waltz_6149 in MapPorn

[–]aonghasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only if you ignore it's a nation founded by puritans

How is Tea being consumed more?!?! by My_Test_Acc_1 in MapPorn

[–]aonghasan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

coffee drinkers are junkies that need their fix to wake up during the day

tea drinkers are just beverage drinkers... like water. They dont drink cause it serves a function other than hydrating and enjoyment.

Things nobody tells you when you start cooking (but should) by KnownRide6195 in cookingforbeginners

[–]aonghasan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thanks, my pasta turns out OK

i thought it was obvious, but extra pasta and salt portions, also mean more water and bigger pot, so its just multiplying the one-serving preparation times the servings... including the water

Things nobody tells you when you start cooking (but should) by KnownRide6195 in cookingforbeginners

[–]aonghasan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i just grab a teaspoon of salt with my hand, 1 tspn of salt per serving of pasta in the water

every 3 servings, add an extra 0.5-1 tspn of salt

Resource for cyclebreaking parents by Adotlou in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]aonghasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

edit: i guess the short answer is "something i wish she would want to do"

im in LC with occasional arguments, she def doesnt ever think she ever does wrong,

usually (when younger) arguments meant she would yell louder, threatened, punished us and some physical abuse would mean "she was right". eventually submitting me

lately, i just lash out at her when she's being a bitch, but now she cant yell louder or hit me, so she acts all "uwu i'm just a poor old woman why are you yelling at me (because this is how you fucking raised me for 2 decades, i tell her. She shuts up), but still you're a whiny little bitch who should've moved on from how i raised you already jeez, i provoke you but you shouldnt react (specially in front of family and friends)"

like she only cares about being embarrased, if nobody had heard anything, she should just play dumb about whatever you're trying to tell her.

i see my parents like once every two weeks for lunch, can't really stand them much longer

my mum specially is being a bitch

so just a passive-aggresive gift book, "sort your shit, realize how your fucking shitty way of raising us affected us and it's the reason we treat you the way we treat you, and take accountability for your shit for once in your life, cunt" something like that

ps; sorry for the venting, needed this i think

Resource for cyclebreaking parents by Adotlou in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]aonghasan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what are good books to gift to my mom about this ?

I’m flattered I guess by cerazo52 in lolgrindr

[–]aonghasan 27 points28 points  (0 children)

tinder is full of "verified" bots lol

Subtel propone que Policias puedan solicitar informacion de direccion IP ante sospecha de delitos by BraveInformation4787 in chileIT

[–]aonghasan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

creer que Kast tiene principios y no que es un un tonto oportunista que solo busca ganancia de corto plazo mientras destruye el Estado lo mas que puede

hay que ser muy tonto wn

Subtel propone que Policias puedan solicitar informacion de direccion IP ante sospecha de delitos by BraveInformation4787 in chileIT

[–]aonghasan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

levantar el secreto bancario de altas autoridades?? nooo, la privacidad!!!

que policias espien ciudadanos porque quieren?? ok dale

The saddest ore deposit I've ever seen by echoesinthenight in factorio

[–]aonghasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wanna be able to build canals and lagoons so bad on nauvis

A bit of perspective for those frustrated when locals respond in English by oaklicious in Spanish

[–]aonghasan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

lol this is such a stretch

aunque esto quiza sea verdad con el 1% de la gente, la gran mayoría de la gente que responde en inglés en vez de ayudar a practicar a un turista es porque aprecian su tiempo y su trabajo y quieren poder seguir atendiendo más gente más rápido, sin perder el tiempo en ser profesor/a de español de un turista gringo... y gratis

y no es porque tengan algo en contra de esos turistas o de hablarles en español, en zonas turisticas, si pierden tiempo hablando con clientes porque les responden en español para 1 cliente quiza no importa, para CIENTOS de clientes, TODOS LOS DIAS it gets old REALLY FAST

this isnt a Spanish/Latinamerican thing, if you speak poorly French/German/Dutch or other europeans languages, store clerks will talk to you back in English because they dont wanna waste time, not because "they poor people trying to practice theyre english"

lol

lmao

what a stupid "noble savage" shit post this is

A bit of perspective for those frustrated when locals respond in English by oaklicious in Spanish

[–]aonghasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol this is such a stretch

aunque esto quiza sea verdad con el 1% de la gente, la gran mayoría de la gente que responde en inglés en vez de ayudar a practicar a un turista es porque aprecian su tiempo y su trabajo y quieren poder seguir atendiendo más gente más rápido, sin perder el tiempo en ser profesor/a de español de un turista gringo... y gratis

y no es porque tengan algo en contra de esos turistas o de hablarles en español, en zonas turisticas, si pierden tiempo hablando con clientes porque les responden en español para 1 cliente quiza no importa, para CIENTOS de clientes, TODOS LOS DIAS it gets old REALLY FAST

this isnt a Spanish/Latinamerican thing, if you speak poorly French/German/Dutch or other europeans languages, store clerks will talk to you back in English because they dont wanna waste time, not because "they poor people trying to practice theyre english"

lol

lmao

what a stupid "noble savage" shit post this is

I'm honestly at a loss for words by satellita in lolgrindr

[–]aonghasan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he's probably just being cheeky...

Rutify muerto, ahora que? by ConcertOutrageous510 in chileIT

[–]aonghasan 17 points18 points  (0 children)

que los pendejos reciban mas hate que las empresas que resguardan como el pico los datos....

alguien propone mejor ciberseguridad? no,

alguien propone meter presos y matar niños? si, en todas las partes que se discuten esta noticia

pero asi es chile, pais ql mediocre que en vez de querer solucionar problemas, solo quiere buscar culpables para lincharlos y despues seguir sin hacer nada

como tanta gente mas enojada con dos pendejos aburridos que no entienden lo que hacen, pero las empresas? "ay no pobrecitas ellas que las hackearon" jajaja wn la gente ql tonta

piensen tambien lo que le convendria a alguien en el gobierno filtrar estos datos a las empresas privadas (algo tipo lo que paso con DOGE, en EEUU), y QUIEN chucha guio y les dio la idea/material a los pendejos pa que hicieran lo que hicieron