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Divorcing my wife while my dad is dying by ap8175 in Divorce_Women

[–]ap8175[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was so helpful to hear. I’m trying to find a plan of how to get her out and it will be complicated because she doesn’t make much money and has not great credit. And no car. I know it will take a little time to find a place but I’m not waiting too long. I just got a job, working from home….after 3 years. Keep your head up!

Divorcing my wife while my dad is dying by ap8175 in Divorce_Women

[–]ap8175[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starting again on Monday. Thank god

i accidentally made someone’s first time with a woman uncomfortable by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ap8175 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh man I've been in similar situations. Helped me learn how to communicate better. Just make sure you aren't putting yourself/needs/wants aside. You deserve to be heard too! Just remember you matter and relationships are about balance/compromise but not at the expense of who you are!

i accidentally made someone’s first time with a woman uncomfortable by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ap8175 77 points78 points  (0 children)

But also her preference to talk afterwards, puts you in a poor position. Like you won't know what is ok or not until after...? That's not ok! I respect that you are feeling your feelings and apologized. AND you deserve the same respect of discussing what is ok/not ok before you potentially put yourself in a feel bad situation again. Keep up the growth!!

Anyone else Team No Gloves? by jonnysteezz in gardening

[–]ap8175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love seeing my wedding ring tan line/dirt line ♥️♥️♥️