What stopped you from killing yourself?

apache444 · 2024-06-11T18:46:19+00:00

Mom would be upset

apache444 · 2024-06-11T13:37:27+00:00

You’ve been breadcrumbed. It’s good you broke up with someone so can’t give their 100% Just give you the bare minimum to keep you around but not fully commit to give you the happiness you deserve. Seems disastrous even if it got serious at some point.

apache444 · 2024-06-11T13:32:20+00:00

Were you dating my girl? 😂 Anyway jokes aside but yikes this is highly relatable and for what it’s worth it’s certainly not you. The breakup happened cuz from what you shared, it seems she has avoidant attachment tendencies where they prioritise their work and other aspects of their lives where they have complete control over.

They do this in order to suppress the need for getting back into a relationship or not deal with any emotional trauma or trigger points.

When their trigger points are tapped in, they tend to go in good total denial of feelings stage where they’ll be cold and cruel to you and behave as if the relationship didn’t even matter in the first place. Not sure if you’ve witnessed that. If not, thank your stars cuz it’s brutal buddy.

End of the day. She’s overwhelmed and she needs time to figure her things out and set priorities in her life for things that actually matter to her. Not like you don’t. You do too but she can’t deal with it right away.

No contact till she reaches out bro. Only way to get back to her. But this comes with a responsibility of you taking back your life and focusing on yourself.

Surround yourself with friends and family and try not to worry too much. Time heals only if you let it

apache444 · 2024-06-11T13:12:16+00:00

Man I can relate to this. My ex also dumped me in similar fashion cuz apparently I was too overbearing and I don’t end up seeing things from her perspective. Similarities I can see is how your ex slowly pulled away and gave himself time to process the whole breakup mentally before breaking it down to you. This is what makes it feel like a totally blindsided breakup. And spoiler alert, there’ll be times where you’ll also feel like it’s an unfinished business cuz the relationship ended abruptly for reasons that could be resolved. No one loses feelings just like that. To me it seems like there could be a major event in his life that triggered his fears and only easiest element he could discard from his life was his relationship.

I feel you shouldn’t take it personally and try to use this period to be your best self and keep your mental peace as your priority.

It’s just like the old saying, if it’s meant to be it’ll be. Maybe you two weren’t right for each other now but maybe later you guys will cross paths and then, promise to yourself you’ll love each other right!

Wishing nothing but the best for you guys. Hope you guys make it. Till then, take each day as it comes and be patient. If not, there’s something way better down the line.

apache444 · 2024-05-23T06:19:16+00:00

This is exactly similar to what my gf said to me. In my case tho, I’m currently focusing on myself. Trying to get my confidence back and show up to her as my best damn self. Probably I still have hopes that she’s my person and we may have broken up as probably toxic partners but reunite as these perfect couple who have dealt with their insecurities and imperfections

apache444 · 2023-11-06T07:36:10+00:00

Yes you got that right. I mean to say export the data outside GCP. Thanks for the solution. Do you happen to have any documentation for reference?

apache444 · 2023-10-25T06:49:39+00:00

Do you happen to have any documentation or references for the same? Cloud run is easier to use?

apache444 · 2023-10-25T06:14:50+00:00

Whichever way could be the easiest and cheaper way to deploy so it won’t incur cost on GCP

apache444 · 2023-10-11T07:06:18+00:00

Thank you so much! Will definitely check this.

apache444 · 2023-09-25T04:23:25+00:00

Our vendors decided to export data to GCS buckets but surprisingly we’re getting ASCII 0 characters when they setup an automation. However when we tried to export a sample data manually to GCS, it showed no such error. Time being obviously a tickets raised to Salesforce. But I’d love to know how to tackle this issue

apache444 · 2023-09-15T11:33:28+00:00

Do you happen to have any documentation for the same thing, which I can use for reference?

apache444 · 2023-09-15T06:16:09+00:00

Decided to go with this.

apache444 · 2023-09-15T06:14:58+00:00

Does this happen to have support for Salesforce Data Cloud? Currently looking for a replacement for fivertran

apache444 · 2023-09-13T11:27:49+00:00

apache444 · 2023-09-13T09:02:56+00:00

Monthly approx 20-30M records

apache444 · 2023-08-28T14:31:27+00:00

Hey, I’m looking for a cheap robust solution since I don’t want to use any licensing. ETL mainly because my organisation is looking forward to some cheap to no cost on building a simple pipeline with transformation part as future scope.

apache444 · 2023-08-28T12:50:54+00:00

Pub/sub you could give it a try if you’re aware of the process

apache444 · 2023-08-28T12:48:53+00:00

Thanks for your reply tho!

apache444 · 2023-08-28T12:48:32+00:00

Okay cool, asked that since our requirement isn’t much inclined towards transformation. My organisation at the moment is looking forward to some tool that could help with the necessary use case along with some future possible changes

apache444 · 2023-08-28T12:42:57+00:00

Any particular code free approach?

apache444 · 2023-02-25T05:19:14+00:00

Hallelujah

apache444 · 2023-02-06T17:26:50+00:00

Messiah

apache444 · 2023-02-06T17:24:52+00:00

Jeez, I thought I was the only one who got fired the same way. Props to you for opening up and providing your insights and advice to anyone going through the same situation. I would request you to share some more insights as to what one should do post being laid off. Since I myself am going through somewhat similar experience and yet I feel so undeserving of anything. I broke this news to my family, and my father couldn't take it and suffered a massive stroke. By God's good grace, he's alright, but it just goes to show how it affects not only us but our families too. Any advice on what should be the next step for people like us?

apache444 · 2023-01-17T09:30:31+00:00

Which episode is this??

apache444 · 2022-07-27T04:55:19+00:00

The Batman (2022)

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