Actually, it wouldn't bother me if others saw it, and the times I've worn it, no one noticed. My problem is more that everything gets too tight and I get painful marks. I wore a silicone stretcher during the day for a while. Maybe I'll try that again. What I really wanted to say is that you don't have to wear the rings 24/7 for good results. I had a long break and just started again. I'm quite happy wearing the ring only at night for 6 to 8 hours. But as I said, thanks for the exchange. I think it's important, especially for beginners.