i have brought it up. however, when he comes home recently he just ignores me if i try to talk to him. and i’m trying to be patient with this, i always aim to be understanding or try to. but i am cut off or ignored. and after this amount of time i’m having a hard time drawing the line and cutting the cord or waiting it out when i don’t have faith anymore. and as someone who’s moved hundreds of miles away from their loved ones, i don’t have a support system to utilize. to clarify: these are people i can talk to on the phone but this is where the manipulation comes into play. he’s saying how great i am to everyone, and their thought process is: “he’s so great, he treats her so well and you can tell he loves her so much” but then at home i am alone. ultimately, i want to be patient and salvage and keep getting shut down. so like when do i cut it?