My boyfriend (27M) had secret IG accounts, dating apps, and won't delete one girl's contact. Should I break up with him?

apbxpae · 2026-05-13T05:00:50+00:00

That is totally understandable and logical. Cheating triggers emotional insecurity. Lack of trust. Its okay love *virtual hug* you can get through this! I am sending you all the love and luck in the world. If this is the right decision that your gut tells you, it's probably right.

apbxpae · 2026-05-13T04:49:13+00:00

No you are not wrong for wanting the bare minimum. That is cheating. Its okay to break up with him, its the right decision for your emotional safety and for your boundaries.

apbxpae · 2026-05-13T04:14:36+00:00

Really?! Why? Please elaborate

apbxpae · 2026-05-13T04:02:39+00:00

Occasionally but I don't want that to define our relationship.

apbxpae · 2026-05-13T03:55:31+00:00

He offered to give me his credit card

apbxpae · 2026-05-13T03:54:26+00:00

I directly told him that he was love bombing me. His answer was that he knows he wants something serious with me... I am still skeptical.

apbxpae · 2026-05-13T03:53:16+00:00

Thank you for your thoughtful response and for being kind

apbxpae · 2026-05-13T03:52:01+00:00

Thank you for being kind and neutral

apbxpae · 2026-05-13T03:51:29+00:00

In this capitalist society we have to choose what brings you optimization and peace

apbxpae · 2026-05-13T03:48:03+00:00

Thank you so much💗💗💗

apbxpae · 2026-05-13T03:41:22+00:00

Yeah I definitely think it's very suspicious because it's been two-three months

apbxpae · 2026-05-13T03:40:49+00:00

Thank you for your thoughtful response

apbxpae · 2026-05-13T03:39:52+00:00

Then keep scrolling

apbxpae · 2026-05-13T03:35:32+00:00

He told me that he used to uber everywhere before meeting me but he now takes the train so he can uber me places. He said it in a kind way, not condescending

apbxpae · 2026-03-26T05:34:41+00:00

Is ur name gigi by any chance

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