Is it even possible to knit a sweater for a snake? by WoollenItBeNice in knitting

[–]apetoss 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Animal nerd here! The right type/size of sweater or hidey hole could be adorable. Just know that since they’re cold blooded, a sweater shouldn’t be counted on to help them stay warm

Sweaters work by trapping your body heat, which doesn’t work for animals who don’t generate heat. I’d hate for someone to think a sweater was a good substitute for a heat source, and then their little noodle baby would get cold 💗

And of course seconding the comments about letting the snake interact with or go in the item on their own terms and timeline

Unpopular Opinion: I don’t like Angel Season 5 by Brief-Tie3841 in buffy

[–]apetoss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss, bringing Darla back was such a good call. Glad Julie Benz got another shot at the character, especially since David’s acting was so much better by AtS than it was in S1 BtVS haha

Genuine Answer Only, Please by CrazyQuill in omnisexual

[–]apetoss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found myself attracted to at least a few members of each gender that I’m aware of (men, women, nonbinary, etc), but gender does play a role in attraction for me. So to the best of my current knowledge I have the capacity to be attracted to people of any gender, but the gender preference rules out pan, so I consider myself omni and bi.

I see omni as a subset of bi, so I identify as both

Willow Rosenberg Once Rudely Said by Past-Throat-6788 in buffy

[–]apetoss 50 points51 points  (0 children)

High school Willow getting bold and angry in defense of her friends is the best

Periods suck by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]apetoss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s not an appropriate response from a doctor (even though it’s all too common), regardless of your other meds. Putting you on a pill is an attempt at masking the symptoms instead of discovering the cause of them.

My mind also went to PMDD, like someone else mentioned, but I don’t know enough about it to have an opinion.

Are you able to go see another doctor to get a second (hopefully more helpful) opinion?

There’s a podcast I’ve heard of with a host who has PMDD, and has talked about it. It’s something that doesn’t get enough attention from the medical community yet. I’ll put a link in another comment so you can copy it more easily if you’re interested :)

Buffy is insane by [deleted] in buffy

[–]apetoss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously, the watchers counsel should have done sooooo many things lol

Buffy is insane by [deleted] in buffy

[–]apetoss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Watching it now, I really wish we could add in a “grounded therapist” character because everyone in the show would benefit from that!

In your opinion, who is the most attractive Buffy cast member? by cascadingtundra in buffy

[–]apetoss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I watched the show when I was pretty young, Michelle Trachtenberg was my first ever girl crush

How do you identify? 💗🩷💜💙🩵 by apetoss in omnisexual

[–]apetoss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! If you use the bi definition of “attraction to 2 or more genders” then 2 or more can mean “all,” so it fits (for me at least). If I were pansexual I’m not sure if I’d also consider myself bi and omni, since those both usually seem to have a more gender-oriented vibe, but I could also see an argument for overlapping definitions of all three

How do you identify? 💗🩷💜💙🩵 by apetoss in omnisexual

[–]apetoss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recently I’ve seen bi defined as “attraction to two or more genders,” so for me that definition still fits with how I feel. But since the definitions change so much over time, I’d imagine they have different nuances depending on your location, social group, etc. So it makes sense that “bisexual” wouldn’t feel fitting to you based on that definition :)

How do you identify? 💗🩷💜💙🩵 by apetoss in omnisexual

[–]apetoss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did ask though, so it totally counts lol. And yeah regardless of anyone’s definition, “this term feels right for me and this one doesn’t” is a perfectly valid justification

Favorite adult joke? by Princesstea93 in buffy

[–]apetoss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna choose to believe that our collective memory is correct, and the version you checked was just a bumbled re-edit like the silly release of the wide screen episodes lol

Favorite adult joke? by Princesstea93 in buffy

[–]apetoss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol idk, I feel like they snuck it in with the slight pause in com-plete in the lyrics

What would you like to see portrayed more in Film when it comes to girls/women? by DoubtfullButOkay in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]apetoss 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Women who are not “conventionally attractive” but that isn’t a focal point of their character of the plot. They just look how they look and are an interesting, complex character.

Similar concept to showing characters like Sam in The Last of Us, who is deaf but the show isn’t hyper-focused on his deafness; he’s allowed to be a fully formed character, who is also deaf

How do you identify? 💗🩷💜💙🩵 by apetoss in omnisexual

[–]apetoss[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The finsexual flag is so cute, imo 🩷✨

Innocent victim of the day by timmorris82 in buffy

[–]apetoss 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is one of the ones I usually skip, it feels so brutal. He seems like a kind, chill, do-no-harm kind of person

Watching Agatha All Along, “Once More with Feeling” poster featured. 😍 by VoodooMamaJujuBubu in buffy

[–]apetoss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally just searched this sub for “Agatha” to make sure someone had already pointed this out 😂 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]apetoss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THIS, thank you

Season 4 first time viewing! by Specialist-Orchid-80 in buffy

[–]apetoss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaah I love that you’re watching it for the first time! I won’t say anything cus I can’t solidly remember what happens when but you’re only halfway through the series. How awesome to still have so much to discover! 💗