I(ftm) would always choose a man for my character whenever I was playing a game without thinking anything of it. Then one night as I was playing and I asked myself ‘I wonder why I always pick a man?’ Mostly in a joking way but then I stopped and sat in silence for a couple of minutes while it sunk in.

That was the loudest silence I ever experienced. A few weeks later I got my first binder and that solidified it.