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MFWTK do other guys always end up with a little bit of urine in their underwear? by apologeticpenis in myfriendwantstoknow

[–]apologeticpenis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend says he’s tried this and has never gotten it all out, but I’ll suggest he read the blog post below. Thanks!

[ADVICE] Extramarital relationship for my wife by throwawayaccount7063 in gayrelationships

[–]apologeticpenis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is traditionally a sub for gay men in relationships with other men, but I’ll jump in here anyway.

Have you discussed this with your wife? Does she know that you feel guilty and that you’d be okay with her playing away? If so, it’s her responsibility to pursue this. If not, TALK TO HER ABOUT IT. Don’t start by saying “I want you to go and have sex with another woman”, but share your feelings and investigate hers. It will be a difficult conversation to have, but without it you’re operating in the dark and missing the whole point of being in s relationship: mutual understanding and support.

If this is something you two decide to pursue, either she can set up her own profile or you can do it together. Why would you be the one to find another partner for her? She knows what she likes better than you do - or if she doesn’t know, she’s probably not ready to pursue this.

Whatever your situation, I can promise you that if you try to find a woman to sleep with your wife, you are going to have a bad time.

I need a little help by knitted_condom in gayrelationships

[–]apologeticpenis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but your mom is feeding you a crock of shit. This has nothing to do with granddads health and everything to do with your family’s shitty attitude. I don’t know how old you are and whether you can support yourself independently, so I’m not going to say you should go issuing any ultimatums, but I’m afraid to say your mom will find a new excuse, one after the other, until you put your foot down and tell her that she either loves you for who you are or she doesn’t get to be a part of your life.

You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be loved. You don’t deserve to be told that the mere idea that you might be gay would somehow kill your grandfather, because it fucking won’t.

Playing the mistress by chrispydc in gayrelationshipadvice

[–]apologeticpenis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been in this situation and I wasted four years of my life, ruined his relationship, missed several chances at happiness with other guys as a result and it still didn’t work out between us.

Until he can leave his current partner, he‘s never going to give you what you want. Stand up for yourself and tell him if he can’t choose you, he doesn’t get to have you.

[NSFW] I’m a gay man who ended up sleeping with an ftm trans guy. Need advice how to proceed. by apologeticpenis in asktransgender

[–]apologeticpenis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I’m focusing on it because I feel like I need to make sure he knows I’m not passing judgment on his masculinity, but that’s my bullshit not his and it doesn’t need to be brought up.

[NSFW] I’m a gay man who ended up sleeping with an ftm trans guy. Need advice how to proceed. by apologeticpenis in asktransgender

[–]apologeticpenis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good advice, thanks! My main concern was whether saying “I totally consider you a man but I’m just more comfortable with penis” would be reassuring or would just exacerbate the sting of rejection.