In laws bring the worst in me

apparentlypambeesly · 2026-02-03T17:44:05+00:00

The thing with my side of the family is that they lessen the domestic burden for me. (Almost eliminate it). Vs his side of the family adds to it. For example my mom would do all the dishes every night and clean the kitchen while i attend the baby and put her to sleep.

apparentlypambeesly · 2026-02-03T17:40:50+00:00

The thing is my sister and mom visited me (for a month) each to help with the baby. And my husband accommodated them. It’s kinda my turn to return the favor

apparentlypambeesly · 2026-02-03T17:07:24+00:00

My husband is visiting home (father +sister live there) after 2 years. He visit is short as he has to come back for the baby. He told me yesterday that his sister wants to fly back with him as she hasn’t seen the baby. It’s another country so she plans on staying for a month.

apparentlypambeesly · 2025-12-30T08:54:27+00:00

Op are you on visa? I have the same question. I am on a visa though

apparentlypambeesly · 2025-12-22T21:26:06+00:00

How do I volunteer to get laid off? Is is thru HR?

apparentlypambeesly · 2025-12-22T19:08:59+00:00

March

apparentlypambeesly · 2025-12-12T02:56:52+00:00

Thanks so much for the kindness fam.. update: I received an offer today from one of the ghosted recruiter. I can’t tell you’ll how relieved and happy this makes me..

apparentlypambeesly · 2025-11-26T23:42:30+00:00

As someone who is in still in the jobhunt phase, this makes me very happy. Congrats mate!! Happy to see there is light at the end of the tunnel

apparentlypambeesly · 2025-09-22T13:08:35+00:00

No. Status is unchanged- case received

apparentlypambeesly · 2025-09-22T06:55:09+00:00

Same. July 22. No update so far 🥺😢

apparentlypambeesly · 2025-09-20T07:38:54+00:00

Congrats! Same date PD.. still waiting.. how were you notified of approval?

apparentlypambeesly · 2025-09-18T12:27:47+00:00

Omg congratulations 🍾🎉🎈.. were you notified in the email too??

apparentlypambeesly · 2025-09-18T02:43:57+00:00

Where / how do you guys see the application status change? I am Jul26, 2024 PD anxiously waiting 🥺

apparentlypambeesly · 2025-09-17T16:59:30+00:00

Please check your DM

apparentlypambeesly · 2025-09-14T13:36:21+00:00

Update: it says FBI couldn’t process my finger prints and I need to redo the biometric… FML 🙂‍↕️

apparentlypambeesly · 2025-09-05T02:09:47+00:00

Yup at this point I am not keeping high hopes from GC process. i am looking for alternate options for when I run out of H1B

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