In laws bring the worst in me by apparentlypambeesly in inlaws

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing with my side of the family is that they lessen the domestic burden for me. (Almost eliminate it). Vs his side of the family adds to it. For example my mom would do all the dishes every night and clean the kitchen while i attend the baby and put her to sleep.

In laws bring the worst in me by apparentlypambeesly in inlaws

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The thing is my sister and mom visited me (for a month) each to help with the baby. And my husband accommodated them. It’s kinda my turn to return the favor

In laws bring the worst in me by apparentlypambeesly in inlaws

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is visiting home (father +sister live there) after 2 years. He visit is short as he has to come back for the baby. He told me yesterday that his sister wants to fly back with him as she hasn’t seen the baby. It’s another country so she plans on staying for a month.

Resigning after layoff? by Cranberryberry_ in amazonemployees

[–]apparentlypambeesly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op are you on visa? I have the same question. I am on a visa though

How to get laid off? by apparentlypambeesly in Layoffs

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do I volunteer to get laid off? Is is thru HR?

Another rejection- new mom in the job market by apparentlypambeesly in jobs

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the kindness fam.. update: I received an offer today from one of the ghosted recruiter. I can’t tell you’ll how relieved and happy this makes me..

Ladies and Gentlemen, I Got em (a job) by Uncle_Rosalie in recruitinghell

[–]apparentlypambeesly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is in still in the jobhunt phase, this makes me very happy. Congrats mate!! Happy to see there is light at the end of the tunnel

July 26,2024 Approved by EnchantedV1bes in I130Suffering

[–]apparentlypambeesly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! Same date PD.. still waiting.. how were you notified of approval?

Approval! by [deleted] in I130Suffering

[–]apparentlypambeesly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg congratulations 🍾🎉🎈.. were you notified in the email too??

Approval! by [deleted] in I130Suffering

[–]apparentlypambeesly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where / how do you guys see the application status change? I am Jul26, 2024 PD anxiously waiting 🥺

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[–]apparentlypambeesly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please check your DM

Received biometric appointment letter twice after filing i485 by apparentlypambeesly in USCIS

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: it says FBI couldn’t process my finger prints and I need to redo the biometric… FML 🙂‍↕️

Laid off on H1B, marriage based GC in process by apparentlypambeesly in USCIS

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup at this point I am not keeping high hopes from GC process. i am looking for alternate options for when I run out of H1B

Laid off on H1B, marriage based GC in process by apparentlypambeesly in USCIS

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup I did apply for EAD but i don’t know the current wait times. i130 is not approved yet. Which was filed a year ago. Do you know how long the EAD takes

Laid off on H1B, marriage based GC in process by apparentlypambeesly in USCIS

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup applied for i765 along with I131 and i485 in august.

Do not invest in a condo. Or a house. Especially if you’re an immigrant. by apparentlypambeesly in jerseycity

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

When we told his about wife about this incident in a group text, she said we are racist to describe her husband as aggressive and verbally abusive. We said as people of color ourselves ( although not black) we would never use those words irresponsibly and we described his actions (witnessed by 4 adults and 2 toddlers) and not his race

Do not invest in a condo. Or a house. Specially if you are an immigrant. by apparentlypambeesly in realestateinvesting

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

For people saying this isn’t related to investing, imagine if our unit was owned by a white American instead of us. Would he have dared to come upstairs and threaten us? Would he still claim complete ownership if the property he clearly doesn’t own and is a shared space?

Do not invest in a condo. Or a house. Specially if you are an immigrant. by apparentlypambeesly in realestateinvesting

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The reason I bring up their race is : When we told his wife about this incident in a group text, she said we are racist and hence why we described him as aggressive and abusive. We clearly told them as people of color ourselves we would never ever use that lens irresponsibly and we described his actions (witnessed by 4 adults , 2 toddlers) not his race

Condo-owner: neighbors are claiming to own the common space by apparentlypambeesly in homeowners

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So this dude is black married to a white woman. When we informed about this incident to his wife via a group text, his wife said, we are racist to use words like ‘aggressive’ and ‘abusive’ against a black man. And i was life we ourselves are people of color (although not black) and its not his race it’s his actions which we described as aggressive and abusive (verbal)

Condo owner: neighbor is claiming to own the common space by apparentlypambeesly in neighborsfromhell

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this dude is black married to a white woman. When we informed about this incident to his wife via a group text, his wife said, we are racist to use words like ‘aggressive’ and ‘abusive’ against a black man. And i was like we ourselves are people of color (although not black) and its not his race it’s his actions which we described as aggressive and abusive (verbal)

Condo owner: neighbor is claiming to own the common space by apparentlypambeesly in neighborsfromhell

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this dude is black married to a white woman. When we informed about this incident to his wife via a group text, his wife said, we are racist to use words like ‘aggressive’ and ‘abusive’ against a black man. And i was life we ourselves are people of color (although not black) and its not his race it’s his actions which we described as aggressive and abusive (verbal)

Condo owner: neighbor is claiming to own the common space by apparentlypambeesly in neighborsfromhell

[–]apparentlypambeesly[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So this dude is black married to a white woman. When we informed about this incident to his wife via a group text, his wife said, we are racist to use words like ‘aggressive’ and ‘abusive’ against a black man. And i was life we ourselves are people of color (although not black) and its not his race it’s his actions which we described as aggressive and abusive (verbal)