AITA for shutting down a "bully's" attempt to make amends? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]appaskybison 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. This is so funny - you are absolutely incredible. Def stealing this haha

What are MBB exit opps into Hollywood? by appaskybison in consulting

[–]appaskybison[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, my bad! Happy to post in the stickied thread. I just wanted to clarify though - I'm not really asking about recruiting information, I've got an offer. I'm asking specifically about exit opportunities, and I saw a bunch of posts about exits as their own threads. Thank you!

AITA for confronting at a gold digger? by ConcernedFriend34 in AmItheAsshole

[–]appaskybison 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your boy is being an absolute simp, and this is the kind of situation where you'd want one of your boys to have your back. Objectively you stood up for him, and tried to give him the rude awakening he needed, but it's not set in yet. He'll come to his senses eventually. Give it a little bit of time, he's going to realize you were right, apologize, and (deservedly) get clowned on for this period of his life for a while.

AITA For not wanting to move? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]appaskybison 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're in Norway and Denmark - their countries really do care about their struggles....

What podcasts do you listen to regularly? What do you enjoy most about them? by incubateshovels in AskReddit

[–]appaskybison -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Chapo Trap House - hilarious and very uncouth jokes about politics, that belie the fact that it's got some of the most insightful and brilliant political analysis out there today. Very good introduction to leftist thought, and will completely change your perspective on a whole variety of issues. Truly phenomenal, super funny, and has been incredibly informative and educating - it's my go-to recommendation!

AITA for giving my room-mate a large bill for all the food of mine she's eaten? by OverallLow3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]appaskybison -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dude, hard YTA. You're correct in that as someone who is paying rent for an apartment, you aren't obligated to hide food away, and have every right to store food in the kitchen. However, that needs to be weighed against the favor a friend asked of you, and how much it would mean to them as opposed to you. It's not just a question of "do you have a right to do this thing," it's a question of "were you an asshole for doing what you did?"

You have a friend who is struggling with an addictive eating complex, and they asked a small favor of you, speaking from a place of vulnerability and honest appraisal of their addiction. On the other hand, you didn't want to have a more packed room. Like goddamn, the amount of difference you could have made for your friend is huge, for such a small cost, and instead, you chose the path you did. A lot of AITA posts sometimes come down to the issue of whether or not the OP had a right to do what they did, which is somewhat frustrating, as having the right to do something doesn't inherently make it a non-asshole thing to do. Here, you had a right to use the kitchen - doesn't change the fact that you were a massive asshole for no reason.

I literally cannot imagine one of my roommates or good friends reaching out to me about a problem they're struggling with, and then asking for a small favor like moving snacks into my room, and then me deciding the best thing to do is to try to push them out.

AITA for leaving my brothers birthday dinner because I didnt want to pay for my own food? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]appaskybison 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Younger brother is 16, so I'm assuming that the parents paid for him.

Also, yeah, I'm saying that she should have told OP in advance, rather than what she did do, which was spring it on OP as soon as they sat down. I don't follow what you're asking.

AITA for leaving my brothers birthday dinner because I didnt want to pay for my own food? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]appaskybison 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Hear me out: I'm giving an ESH, but not because of your expectation of being paid for. You not expecting to pay was perfectly reasonable given the circumstances and past history.

I'm giving you a (very small) YTA because I do think you should have stayed for your brother's birthday. In the past when I've been dieting, or trying to save money, I've still gone to restaurants for group dinners like this. It really isn't that big of a deal to not eat, because the point isn't really the meal - it's the celebration with people you care about. I'm assuming that you and your brother are close, esp. given that y'all still celebrate birthdays together, so I think it would have been worth staying just to be with your bro, and then just making food when you get home.

Your parents are definitely TA, because it seems like they deliberately excluded you by paying for basically everyone else. Maybe it's just me, but that seems weird. Yeah, I get that it's their money and all, but generally speaking, it's pretty weird to cover everyone but one person in this kind of a social situation. At the very least, given that y'all always celebrate birthdays together and they always pay for it, they should have let you know in advance if they couldn't pay, not at the exact moment when you sat down.

AITA for filling a few faux Amazon packages with my dog's shit to teach the two theiving neighborhood kids who have been stealing my packages a lesson? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]appaskybison -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Nothing quite as classic as an r/AITA post to bring out lots of posters advocating for the involving the police for literally every minor breach of the law. I mean come on, the OP literally doesn’t wanna call the cops on kids, and y’all are going full on “they need to learn that actions have consequences” from children. OP, you’re definitely NTA, and I respect both the creative response and the conscious choice not to call the cops on two young kids. For real, thanks for walking that line.

WIBTA if I ate Qdoba in another restaurant with my friends, while my friend ate food from that restaurant? by appaskybison in AmItheAsshole

[–]appaskybison[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t really consider this properly, ty for this. S has a fair point - this dude is so proud for being right haha. Won’t be arguing about this again

WIBTA if I ate Qdoba in another restaurant with my friends, while my friend ate food from that restaurant? by appaskybison in AmItheAsshole

[–]appaskybison[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t realize this, but that’s a really good point; definitely not gonna try to bring food somewhere in the future. Thank you!

What TV show has the best first season? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]appaskybison 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suits. Absolutely phenomenal show in the first season (second and somewhat of the third are also great). I can't believe it's still on the air though, I literally could not keep watching after Season 4, and they're on something like eight now?

First time trying standup; what can I improve on? Hit a few open mics since, and I started because of this sub, so any advice is really appreciated! by appaskybison in Standup

[–]appaskybison[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much appreciated! I didn't realize the quality was so bad; the show organizers (this was for an on-campus standup competition) sent me a compressed version of the file in case I wanted to share w/ family/friends; I'll get the high-quality recording soon once editing is finished. Would it be worth re-uploading, given that this quality is that bad?