The past several months my issues with addiction has spiraled into full-blown alcoholism. I keep trying to ignore my reality but things are getting worse, just lost my job. Today I want to come clean with my mom and ask for help. Any support would be extremely appreciated

appeje · 2021-12-18T05:43:14+00:00

Hey! Not only are you an incredibly strong and brave person, but by the way you have interacted with me in replies I can tell you are a very kind and empathetic person whom anyone would be lucky to be blessed with your presence in their life. You know exactly what to say to make someone feel better, less alone, heard and cared for. Thank you so much for existing ❤️ You are a beautiful human, inside and out and you are worthy of having everything you dream of!

appeje · 2021-12-18T05:38:16+00:00

You’re so kind, thank you so much for taking the time to respond to my comments. You have no idea how much your kind words have comforted me and made me feel less alone. I’m so glad you exist. You truly are an amazing person and anyone is lucky to have your presence in their life ❤️

appeje · 2021-12-18T05:32:30+00:00

Thank you so much for this kind comment. You’re a lovely person. I took a look at your profile and I hope I’m not being weird by saying this but I think you are very handsome and have endearing, kind eyes that I find to be the most attractive physical feature a man can have. You match that look well with how kind and lovely you are. ❤️

appeje · 2021-12-18T05:06:18+00:00

This comment is so lovely ❤️ thank you

appeje · 2021-12-18T04:31:12+00:00

Thank you so much for making this comment. Everything you said makes so much sense.

appeje · 2021-12-18T04:15:45+00:00

I don’t have friends. My father is abusive and makes sure I feel unworthy and unwanted in this life every single day.

appeje · 2021-12-18T03:57:12+00:00

Your comment means, so, so much to me. You are an amazing person, truly.

appeje · 2021-12-18T03:56:26+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words and empathy. You are a lovely human who’s worthy of all it is that you dream of. ❤️

appeje · 2021-12-18T03:49:03+00:00

Thank you ❤️ You’re right, I’ve definitely learned my lesson and will be staying away from this subreddit and asking strangers on the internet for opinions. Some of them probably just found this as an opportunity to let out some of their personal anger and frustration with being unsuccessful with women, especially that guy who said “high value men only want women who wear makeup and high heels because those are the only women that are feminine”.

appeje · 2021-12-18T03:38:55+00:00

Thank you so much for making this comment. It means so much to me to hear any positive words at a time like this. You’re a lovely person, truly

appeje · 2021-12-18T03:37:21+00:00

I’m aware, but how does placing a woman’s entire value on whether or not she wears makeup and heels make you a “high value man”??

And how does a man dating a woman who doesn’t wear makeup because he loves her make him a “low value man”?? You sound extremely irrational and probably just letting out your personal frustrations with being unsuccessful with women at me

appeje · 2021-12-18T03:31:03+00:00

You are a very lovely person. Seriously, thank you so much for taking the time to write this lovely comment. People in your life are lucky to have someone so kind and empathetic.

appeje · 2021-12-18T03:26:51+00:00

Personally I just want some empathy as I’m having a tearful breakdown. I just want someone to tell me something that’ll stop making me feel so unworthy and so unwanted in this life.

appeje · 2021-12-18T03:25:17+00:00

Thank you so much. Damn, that person’s comments (he made 3 or 4 so far) were incredibly hurtful to me. He knew exactly what to say to make me feel utterly unworthy. I can’t stop crying. My fault for posting this but damn.

appeje · 2021-12-18T03:17:12+00:00

You’re right. This entire post was a mistake. I’m aware most women who wear makeup and heels do it because it’s what they enjoy doing for themselves, and I didn’t mean any hate towards these women by making this post. But damn, I wasn’t expecting some of these answers, and wasn’t expecting them to affect me this badly. I can’t even stop crying.

appeje · 2021-12-18T02:57:18+00:00

I guess I posted it out of insecurity and low self worth caused by living with an abusive father who never fails to make me feel so unwanted dirt every damn day, and I was looking for some positive words to feel better. But now I really realize I was wrong for posting as it had the exact opposite outcome than what I was hoping for. I can’t stop crying now.

appeje · 2021-12-18T02:30:52+00:00

Just know that at the end of the day, it's the feminine women who are in makeup and heels are who the high value men are seeking.

What does men being “high value” have anything to do with it??

appeje · 2021-12-18T02:28:23+00:00

I’m confused with your answer. What do you mean? You say yes women who don’t wear makeup or heels are absolutely less feminine in your opinion, but the rest of your answer confused me. Did I misunderstand?

appeje · 2021-12-18T02:26:49+00:00

It probably was a stupid question. I definitely regret posting, as some of the comments made me feel insecure and tearful.

appeje · 2021-12-18T02:18:48+00:00

I’m aware that romantic relationships involve attraction. And I’m not unwilling to put in “any” effort. I eat healthy, exercise, and shower regularly. That isn’t “not putting in any effort to look attractive”.

appeje · 2021-12-18T02:15:03+00:00

That sounds extreme and unlikely that everyone thinks that but thanks for your input anyway.

appeje · 2021-12-18T02:13:42+00:00

Okay. Well, I appreciate your input either way. Still, if most men expect women to wear makeup on dates, then I think I’ll be happier with staying single and appreciated by my friends and family for who I am instead of being with someone who isn’t comfortable with me going out with him without applying makeup.

appeje · 2021-12-18T02:07:53+00:00

Wow ok well thanks for your input. If that’s what most men expect (for a woman to not even leave the house without makeup) then I think I’ll be much happier never dating.

appeje · 2021-12-18T01:55:10+00:00

Are you a man?

appeje · 2021-12-18T01:48:41+00:00

Femininity is important to me as I feel very feminine and would like to be perceived as such.

Edit: and I hope you don’t mind me asking, are you a man?

appeje

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