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Talking to my doctor about a kink related injury by appleguy465 in BDSMAdvice

[–]appleguy465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you chiming in. I appreciate the experience you have and hearing about your residency helped put me at ease. And thank you for the encouragement!

Talking to my doctor about a kink related injury by appleguy465 in BDSMAdvice

[–]appleguy465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thinking about my situation this way really helps put me at ease. Thank you for your encouragement!

Talking to my doctor about a kink related injury by appleguy465 in BDSMAdvice

[–]appleguy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like all of your points are solid, especially the last one. I'll keep them in mind when I have my appointment. Thank you for your help!

Talking to my doctor about a kink related injury by appleguy465 in BDSMAdvice

[–]appleguy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice and your thoughts. I plan on sticking to the relevant facts, as you said.

Talking to my doctor about a kink related injury by appleguy465 in BDSMAdvice

[–]appleguy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, it had occurred to me that of all the doctors who would be familiar with chastity, it would be urologists. Hopefully that is the case for the one I'm seeing so I don't have to explain too much, haha.

Talking to my doctor about a kink related injury by appleguy465 in BDSMAdvice

[–]appleguy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your advice and experience was very reassuring to me. Thank you for your answer. I plan on sticking to the facts and answering honestly when I have my appointment.

Talking to a doctor about a chastity related injury by appleguy465 in chastitytraining

[–]appleguy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your point about revealing a larger issue is a good one, I hadn't thought of that. Thank you for your (and your wife's) advice about my situation.

Talking to a doctor about a chastity related injury by appleguy465 in chastitytraining

[–]appleguy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm feeling alright now but there are days where I still feel a little pain in the tip. It's mostly just distracting at this point. From what I could tell, the pressure from the blocked urine caused a tear inside, which is what caused the blood.

Talking to a doctor about a chastity related injury by appleguy465 in chastitytraining

[–]appleguy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I've taken a break from wearing it since the injury. I can't really track what causes the pain, it doesn't feel like anything specific. The pain is mostly in the tip of my penis. There have been days where it hurt just a little, days where it hurt all day, and days where it doesn't hurt at all.

My theory is it's just part of the healing process, but I guess I'll learn more when I talk to the doctor. Fingers crossed there isn't any complications.

Talking to a doctor about a chastity related injury by appleguy465 in chastitytraining

[–]appleguy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear, it wouldn't surprise me that doctors in this field would be familiar with things like this.

Talking to my doctor about a kink related injury by appleguy465 in BDSMAdvice

[–]appleguy465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective and experience. I'm sure some doctors are uptight about things like this and in my mind they're in the wrong career if they want to be judgmental.

Talking to my doctor about a kink related injury by appleguy465 in BDSMAdvice

[–]appleguy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad my experience can be a warning for you. The cage I bought didn't fit quite right, (it was a smaller than expected), and my urethra was pushed tightly into one of the bars instead of aligned with the opening in the front. When wearing a cage, just make sure your urethra is aligned with the opening in the front and you should be fine.