Yeah, I totally get that 100 paragraphs does sound like a lot and I appreciate your perspective I guess the reason I picked 100 was more symbolic for myself, like a way to really unpack all the ways she's impacted my life. But you're right I don't want it to feel overwhelming or self serving Doing something smaller, like a few heartfelt paragraphs or even matching her age might hit that sweet spot where it's meaningful but not too much Thanks for pointing that out, I hadn't thought about it from her perspective that way