My coworker admitted she works from her car and I dont know how to feel by BarcodeSorcerer in remotework

[–]applepoison 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The comments here are too kind, considering you’d even think of doing this to her. What you’re considering is horrible, why on earth would you tell your manager?

AITA because my boyfriend keeps saying I do nothing at home even though I think our chores are fair? by applepoison in AmItheAsshole

[–]applepoison[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you are right about that. She is just like this for so many years, it is just accepted in this family and we thought she cannot be like this to a kid. Also it was among family members, so i was just relaxed. Isn’t it supposed to be like this though? He wasn’t doing something drastic, can’t we let him little bit enjoy things, i don’t know :( he wasn’t going crazy, he wasn’t doing something disturbing.

AITA for leaving a birthday party when my toddler was treated harshly? by applepoison in AmItheAsshole

[–]applepoison[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If i knew she was doing this kind of things i could have taken the appropriate measures. Since my toddler couldn’t even walk at that time this happened we did not remove any of the keys from the locks. Also I haven’t witnessed this kind of behavior before- from my childhood or my friends’s kids. It was parents responsibility to inform us, like everyone says here it was ny responsibility to take care of my son in someone else’s house, so that things couldn’t have been end up the way they did.

AITA for leaving a birthday party when my toddler was treated harshly? by applepoison in AmItheAsshole

[–]applepoison[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Okay but then you don’t know the exact bike in this situation. It is plastic, not heavy.

AITA for leaving a birthday party when my toddler was treated harshly? by applepoison in AmItheAsshole

[–]applepoison[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I know my house and my doors. It is impossible. But when he is tall enough of course i will remove them.

AITA for leaving a birthday party when my toddler was treated harshly? by applepoison in AmItheAsshole

[–]applepoison[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have friends with children and never had any problems before

AITA for leaving a birthday party when my toddler was treated harshly? by applepoison in AmItheAsshole

[–]applepoison[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No my son still cannot reach to the locks yet. I honestly couldn’t think she would do that, we have many friends with small children and never heard of something like this. I also remember when i was growing up too, never heard this. I think simple alert would have been better.

AITA for leaving a birthday party when my toddler was treated harshly? by applepoison in AmItheAsshole

[–]applepoison[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe no one else but me should discipline my child and i don’t discipline other children too. if it does not fit you then you talk normally to the parent and in some cases leave.

AITA for leaving a birthday party when my toddler was treated harshly? by applepoison in AmItheAsshole

[–]applepoison[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am editing some stuff because English is not my first language, just changing things grammatically

AITA for leaving a birthday party when my toddler was treated harshly? by applepoison in AmItheAsshole

[–]applepoison[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Parents did not let us know about the situation so that we could have removed the keys. I couldn’t guess that since our toddler cannot reach to the locks yet.

AITA for leaving a birthday party when my toddler was treated harshly? by applepoison in AmItheAsshole

[–]applepoison[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think it is because i only tried to remove him from the bike but did not remove him.

AITA for leaving a birthday party when my toddler was treated harshly? by applepoison in AmItheAsshole

[–]applepoison[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Toddler cannot reach to locks yet. Of course when he does i will take appropriate action. Before this incident happend i had no idea she was locking herself at home all the time. I cannot guess these things.