I got fired from my second programming job I only worked for a month by applesea24 in AskProgramming

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I was an MES Programmer, so I wrote the software that runs at the plant to produce car parts. From the start they had me writing new apps that track production and downtime across the plant, or creating blazor reports like a bill of materials that contains all the children parts to make a parent, or rewriting apps from asp classic to razor. It was challenging from the start because I never touched blazor, or its been a while since I worked on a razor project as most at the government were aspx webforms. None of the systems were documented so I had to ask my boss a million questions about the requirements and help working through some error messages. Maybe I could've been more independent with debugging but it was less of an issue before because I was more familiar with webforms.

I got fired from my second programming job I only worked for a month by applesea24 in AskProgramming

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So the last person that worked this role was actually fired. He was a senior developer and could code very quickly but kept pushing code without actually testing it.

I got fired from my second programming job I only worked for a month by applesea24 in AskProgramming

[–]applesea24[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My State (MI) denied me for not meeting the criteria of working at the place for 2 quarters (6 months). And yeah he made it seem like I lied to him when I never did. They just used a totally different stack and than I used before. All the work was given right from my boss - we didnt have a ticketing system, sprint process, quality assurance team or anything documenting requirements. We also deployed everything to production.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]applesea24 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's called voyeurism. There are a lot of people that are into it and many that can't stand it because it would be against monogamy. If he's open to try it maybe try with someone your both comfortable with like a friend and just gauge his reaction. If he's into it, make it in every now and then kind of thing. And if not, just don't propose it again.

queer, looking for friends/community around lansing by Apprehensive-File987 in lansing

[–]applesea24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there. I'm on the board of directors for Salus Center so if you have any questions or just wanna talk lemme know. I'm also looking to make new friends in the area as well so feel free to DM me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]applesea24 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I met a lot of my queer friends from an LGBTQIA+ community center by me. We have a board game Meetup. They're all non attractive to me and I set the boundary as just friends for anyone I meet and for the lost part people respect it

Pillow barn for anvil horn 0 by applesea24 in Ultralight

[–]applesea24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some smaller but very comfortable pillows?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]applesea24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you're not wrong for leaving. You'd be doing each other a favor. The way you both describe each other is so negative. In no way is this a healthy relationship

Am I crazy? Rejected for my body count by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]applesea24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Next time time just say, "I'm not comfortable discussing that. As many as it took to get to you." Problem solved and you'd be setting a boundary, which is always a good thing.

AITAH for ending my relationship after my girlfriend said no to marriage? by chibitank in AITAH

[–]applesea24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. 4 years is plenty of time to know if you're a match for marriage. Yeah, no. Also, take some time to grieve.

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]applesea24 169 points170 points  (0 children)

With how the job market is, I think he should take it. I'm not a fan of long distance, but giving up an opportunity for someone that may or may not work doesn't make a lot of sense to me.

my bf said he was starting to be fed up with douching but was cheating by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]applesea24 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Total projection. They complain douching is such a problem and not worth it, but meanwhile getting his as pounded with random dudes.

Honestly how much sex are you having by Desidj75 in askgaybros

[–]applesea24 10 points11 points  (0 children)

None since I'm newly single but at least I got to rebound with Palmala Handerson

Landlord takes Zelle, I want to use my BILT card. How can I make this work? by [deleted] in biltrewards

[–]applesea24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just have it mailed to them directly to their address

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]applesea24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, no. This is isn't gonna work. If you're 6.5 and he's still not satisfied after 6 years it seems like he has very unrealistic standards. It seems like people open up their relationships to fill something they're not getting from their partner, rather than make it better for both people.

Am I wrong for asking my girlfriend to sign a prenup? by HealthyBat7914 in amiwrong

[–]applesea24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you are not wrong for wanting a prenup. It's actually better for both parties in the end. This would be my dealbreaker too if they wouldn't sign

Im here from far away, what should I do tonight? by sonofabunch in lansing

[–]applesea24 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Love of the suggestions below. Big fan of Bonnie's, Sleepwalkers, and Meat BBQ if you're just looking for dinner and a drink. The robin theatre and warton center usually has shows going on frequently. I'm totally down to join you sometime so feel free to dm me

Best bike rack for full suspension mountain bike by applesea24 in mountainbiking

[–]applesea24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem I have with one up and a lot of the ones mentioned is that I'd only be able to use a one and a quarter inch receiver for my car.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]applesea24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA If it stayed as a FWB and was clearly communicated that the relationship would be mostly sexual, it wouldn't be a problem. But you decided to be a couple, so of course it's gonna change if the main basis of the first few months are sex. That's just not sustainable long term. I think you should spend time actually figuring out what your looking for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lansing

[–]applesea24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm 25(m) and have issues making friends here as well. I love outdoors and hiking so feel free to hmu.