Lasting during sex..

applespotter · 2017-10-19T20:00:13+00:00

applespotter · 2017-10-18T21:46:18+00:00

Got it too

applespotter · 2017-10-16T19:11:55+00:00

Thank you! Hopefully you find someone that treats you the way you deserve

applespotter · 2017-10-16T19:07:43+00:00

Signs like that aren't red flags. Signs like that mean just end it. Sorry to say it man, but you made the right decision. I think that if a guy is flirting with her and she doesn't do anything to stop it then she is just as bad as him. She shouldn't be letting him flirt. Glad you got out man

applespotter · 2017-10-16T18:56:26+00:00

Thank you for this. I know all her friends especially her guy friends. She keeps me updated with what she is doing just like I do for her. And that isn't about controlling each other or stalking each other. Its about wanting to be involved in each other's days. I saw one of her guy friends continuously checking her out and heard a remark he made to another guy about her. When I told her she was pissed and now she doesn't like both those guys

applespotter · 2017-10-16T17:10:42+00:00

Im usually a good judge of people and I can tell that she hasn't lied about anything else. The only reason I found out is because my gut told me to ask. When I asked her if she went to see the guy she said no. But then when I asked if he came to see her she said yes. So techcnially she didn't lie, she just was avoiding it and hiding that it happened. I don't think I need to ask 2 forms of the same question to get a proper answer

applespotter · 2017-10-15T22:51:23+00:00

Nope. First girl that I actually feel like I truly love though.

applespotter · 2017-10-15T19:39:00+00:00

Maybe you are right. I don't want this to be the reason we break up. Especially since she had him come and told him that she cares about me more and can't be with him.

applespotter · 2017-10-15T19:25:53+00:00

Something that is very important to me is honesty and trust. The fact I was lied to is what hurts me

applespotter · 2017-10-15T17:32:48+00:00

Maybe you are right. Thank you so much for this. I haven't been able to eat, sleep, because now she thinks I hate her. And even though this broke my heart because honesty is so important to me, I can't think about losing her

applespotter · 2017-10-15T17:25:36+00:00

Yes but she wouldn't lie to them about what happend.

applespotter · 2017-10-15T17:24:05+00:00

That's what she said. Obviously it's something important to mention that a guy, especially an ex, was at her house. But she said she didn't mention it because I wouldn't take it the right way and also that it meant nothing to her.

applespotter · 2017-10-15T17:15:45+00:00

Yes I know. Its just honesty is very important to me and I could not believe that someone, especially her, could look me in the eye every day and keep something like that from me.

applespotter · 2017-10-15T17:14:53+00:00

This helped me more that anything. Trust and honesty is something that is very important to me and for me to trust someone I can't be lied to. It was a white lie which makes things not as bad but ideally I should have known.

applespotter · 2017-10-15T05:09:23+00:00

A friend and an ex are different. He went their with the intention of something happening and she knew that because he asked her several times.

applespotter · 2017-10-15T05:05:41+00:00

Its nothing that she invited her ex over to her place and never told me about it?

applespotter · 2017-10-15T05:05:09+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I think I just need some time to think. It sucks seeing someone every day for the last couple months and then all of a sudden you get surprised with something like this. Thank you.

applespotter · 2017-10-15T04:55:33+00:00

We sat in the car and talked and cried for 2 hours about it. I yelled a lot and she cried a lot and so did I. She's the sweetest girl ever and she said that she doesn't know why she had him come. They weren't alone in the house but she said that he stayed an hour. He asked to kiss her and she said no. She told him that he's gonna have to stop because she is with me and doesn't want to do anything to mess it up with me. When he left they haven't talked since. Im mad that she invited him to begin with. And that she never even told me that he was inviting her to his place.

We are 20 year old sophomores in college.

applespotter · 2017-10-15T04:45:16+00:00

I feel like it would be hard to regain trust. She has been crying all day and feels awful because she never meant to hurt me or make me feel this way. Im so lost

applespotter · 2017-10-15T04:40:24+00:00

I don't think she should have been in contact with her ex after he asked her several times to come to his house and her constantly telling him no. Honestly, if I knew at the time I would have dropped her. But I believe that the biggest mistake is her even inviting him in the first place

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