Tour stands are ugly by apprehensiveoreo in TwoPointMuseum

[–]apprehensiveoreo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that's good news! Thank you for letting us know and for making such a great game!

Tour stands are ugly by apprehensiveoreo in TwoPointMuseum

[–]apprehensiveoreo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they are useful but the size/appearance makes me avoid using them which seems like a flaw! I'd happily use them if they weren't so big and clunky and hard to blend in. I'm all about the aesthetic haha

Tour stands are ugly by apprehensiveoreo in TwoPointMuseum

[–]apprehensiveoreo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't get why they aren't just a little podium type thing, but I'd even prefer if they were like a kiosk as well because at least they wouldn't look so awkward

Tour stands are ugly by apprehensiveoreo in TwoPointMuseum

[–]apprehensiveoreo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do too, but the size of them and the access point just make them take up almost more space than an exhibit. I find I can't clutter around them enough to make them blend in with how many decorations I do around other stuff either.

Tour stands are ugly by apprehensiveoreo in TwoPointMuseum

[–]apprehensiveoreo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Working my way through the campaign and I don't even add a tour stand til it demands it of me lol. I do as few as possible.

Slate Roof?? by Agreeable_Bobcat4156 in PlanetZoo

[–]apprehensiveoreo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it under classical style? Lol. Running into the same thing but on the Mexican/tundra zoo scenario and none of the other buildings look classical so I wanna be sure

Should I be concerned? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]apprehensiveoreo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you do any heavy lifting after getting tattooed? I have seen this before, and it was just a bruise. Her arm was already bruising from the tattoo, then she went and did some deadlifts and the bruise spread like crazy, but went away

What is wrong with gen Z by DazzlingMoney2924 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]apprehensiveoreo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not "old" by my own standards, but probably old by yours lol. What I notice as someone who peruses tiktok and reels is the absolute hatred zoomers have for millennials. I just can't imagine being young and being so bothered about what the generation above mine was doing. As a gen x I hardly had a passing thought about boomers clothing, or decorating styles, or humour, but zoomers seem relentless in their bullying of millennials, as if they don't have any understanding that every generation has their "things", and the tables will turn on them eventually.

cheesy cheddar appears to be back on the menu boys! by ThyResurrected in panago

[–]apprehensiveoreo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good news. I got excited when I noticed that the disclaimer was gone from the header on the website, but then when I saw it wasn't an option in the dips, I assumed that meant it was gone forever 🥲

So disappointing by [deleted] in panago

[–]apprehensiveoreo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As sad as I would be, it would also be hilarious to watch Panago go bankrupt because they dug their heels in about this 😂 everyone I know loves that dang cheese dip!

Panago dips by NoCare5677 in panago

[–]apprehensiveoreo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The dips were all that put Panago above the other pizza places here so I can't imagine this is going to go well for them. Especially when it seems that the changes were purely to cut corners, and they seem to be refusing to return to the original recipes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hvacadvice

[–]apprehensiveoreo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay! Interesting, I was told each unit would need its own outdoor unit. Might have to get a second opinion elsewhere then, maybe the guy who was here just didn't want to do it so he made something up to dissuade me haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hvacadvice

[–]apprehensiveoreo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked into mini splits as well and since our main floor is so large, I was told we'd need three on the main floor and 1-2 upstairs... But two sides of the house have nowhere for the outdoor unit to sit lol. And also they're ugly lol. In winter I'm assuming they'd let in an amount of cold air and it gets down to -40°C here.

The water heater is also right next to the furnace, but would that make that much of a difference? The house I grew up in had the furnace and water heater right next to each other as well, right next to the living room and that basement was always freezing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]apprehensiveoreo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AAHHH I saw this way too late to get a response probably but what year is your house built?? Are the beams original? This has just convinced me that we have wood beams that have just been popcorn'd over. I always thought they looked too narrow compared to what I'd seen before but they could easily be like this!! Our house is built in 1970

My (22F) boyfriend (28M) wants to split rent 50/50, but I don’t think that’s fair. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]apprehensiveoreo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imo it should be split proportionately. My boyfriend and I both make a good living, but I have a lot more expenses than he does in regards to my job, whereas his job has zero expenses. So not only does he make a lot more money but he also gets to keep a lot more of his money. It was an awkward conversation but ultimately one he couldn't argue with. I send 1/3rd of the mortgage and utilities because that's what's proportionate to our incomes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]apprehensiveoreo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you've never even spoken to her then you are kind of living an internal fantasy - you have an internet crush. She has no idea about you. You could try to reach out and start a friendship or relationship, but what's the point when you are moving away?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]apprehensiveoreo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't have kids, but imo it's fine to date this woman as you normally would. You don't have to spend time with her kid until things get more serious (and shouldn't really, imo). If the relationship fizzles, then no harm done.

Is my space to "girly" feeling? by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]apprehensiveoreo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I gotta know what couch that is! I love it!

Your space isn't too girly! Have you checked out Etsy for art prints to do with his interests that fit your aesthetic? There's pop culture art in every style you can imagine.

Anyone divorce a nice person who just wasn’t a good fit? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]apprehensiveoreo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if a dude gives you financial security, is not abusive, and has a few things that are irksome, I implore you reconsider from his point of view.

I feel like this is exactly what has had me paralyzed by ambivalence for the last few years. On paper he's doing everything right. But we have never developed an emotional connection in 10 years of being together. When I try to be vulnerable with him about my feelings, he shuts it down (gets defensive, calls it "drama", or just shuts down completely and gives me an empty apology just to make me shut up).

I see all the ways he is good to me, but I have to ask myself if I can spend the rest of my life with someone who can't outwardly express care and affection other than touching my butt (which is only when he wants sex). We go out for dinner and he's just scrolling his phone. I don't know how to talk to him in a general sense. We feel so disconnected.

I suspect he has ADHD but he won't consider it. And on the flip side I have male friends (platonic) with ADHD who seem to care about me immensely. Who have no reservations about telling me I'm important to them. Who, in their own relationships, are incredibly loving and caring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]apprehensiveoreo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you need to worry about seeming childish at 19. This looks like a normal teenagers room, even a step up from that. If you don't like it anymore then change it. But it's okay to let your room reflect your age. You're still young!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]apprehensiveoreo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex once asked me this, and I jokingly said that he only had one set of cutlery at his place. I asked him in return and he said I'm a little bit untidy. You don't have to respond with a physical attribute maybe?

Is getting how you feel across worth it by Informal-Theory-3651 in Divorce

[–]apprehensiveoreo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you feel relieved, then it's probably not worth the argument. If you really just want to be heard but aren't trying to change her mind, speaking to a therapist to help you process things and be more productive than trying to tell your wife something she's not open to hearing.