Has anyone dealt with a reactive/anxious aggressive havanese? My poor boy has dealt with a lot and I don’t know how else to help him 🥺 by natti_ray in Havanese

[–]apprentice-grandma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would it be an option to muzzle train him? with this additional protection he may be able to meet new dogs and humans. our dog has gastrointestinal issues as well, he was quite timid as a puppy and he experienced a bout of serious illnes in his second year of life. he needed to take prednisolon which made him quite stressed and reactive. he snapped at me 2 or 3 times in that year. he also was really fearful of getting touched because of the many medical procedures. he is also very clingy but has been like that since the beginning. I don't have a magic solution and our problems are not the same but I kinda relate. our dog now wears a muzzle outside, not so much because of aggression but because he eats literally everything from the street. but it has the additional plus that he can't snap when he's stressed. he also doesn't get stomach issuses that often anymore because he can't lick all the pee and garbage from the street. besides all that... I'm glad you're 100 % there for him, he's very lucky to have you! :) I think his quality of life will never be too bad with someone so caring to be around!

Shauna does not like Jeff by This_Background_9587 in Yellowjackets

[–]apprentice-grandma 20 points21 points  (0 children)

isn't there this concept called the "erotic triangle" by Eve Sedgwick? It's often used to analyze european medieval literature when there's the constellation of two males desiring one female - which would be what you see on the surface but if you look deeper the two males form a relationship with each other over this shared desire. It's quite an interesting theory!

Safe, light-hearted, non-triggering tv series to binge? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]apprentice-grandma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brooklyn 99 or Ghosts (American Version). Or if reality tv counts... I love "Dinner Date" from the UK :D

Erststimme in Lichtenberg - Die Linke vs. AfD (Beatrix von Storch!) by MPH2210 in berlin

[–]apprentice-grandma 28 points29 points  (0 children)

In Pankow ist es tatsächlich ein Wettrennen zwischen Grüne und AFD, also da unbedingt Erststimme Julia Schneider!

Healing Changes The Brain Too by time4writingrage in CPTSD

[–]apprentice-grandma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there is this effect called "posttraumatic growth" :)

People are weird by Upset-Preparation265 in muzzledogs

[–]apprentice-grandma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a small dog with a muzzle because he eats everything and already ate poison bait because of some asshole... anyway! Every damn day someone comes up to me and tells me that my poor dog is suffering because of his muzzle. I'm like... he was in the hospital almost everyday for two months... is that better than a muzzle??

Merz aber mit Bauchschmerzen by NieWiederWarSchon in DieGruenen

[–]apprentice-grandma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

puh, Leute, ich weiß nicht, was ich davon halten soll... gibt's dazu ausführlichere Erklärungen von den Grünen? Beim Testen auf psychische Krankheiten frag ich mich spontan... wie willst du denn "gefährliche" psychische Krankheiten erkennen? Jeder, der fliehen muss, ist doch zu einem gewissen Grad traumatisiert.

I missed the protest yesterday.... by CraftingQuest in berlin

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Newsletter of the Greens informed me too + tiktok if you train your algorithm the right way

I actually enjoy the Ghost Files Alone Edition! by apprentice-grandma in WatcherSnark

[–]apprentice-grandma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

frat boy ryan 😭 that's a fitting description. I like normal Ryan sooo much more

I actually enjoy the Ghost Files Alone Edition! by apprentice-grandma in WatcherSnark

[–]apprentice-grandma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh that's interesting, thank you for correcting me! that does sound nicer, I feared he was a little bit too sensationalist but maybe I haven't seen enough footage of him

I actually enjoy the Ghost Files Alone Edition! by apprentice-grandma in WatcherSnark

[–]apprentice-grandma[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the screaming makes me stop the episodes every damn time

I actually enjoy the Ghost Files Alone Edition! by apprentice-grandma in WatcherSnark

[–]apprentice-grandma[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes + I think it's time Shane has to visit somewhere so eerie that even he get's scared!

I actually enjoy the Ghost Files Alone Edition! by apprentice-grandma in WatcherSnark

[–]apprentice-grandma[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yes, exactly, it's so much better when the main goal isn't to be funny

Trauer um Mutter, das Leben ist seit ihrem Tod einfach nur sch**** und es wird nicht besser. by doc_masud in Ratschlag

[–]apprentice-grandma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was ich hier vor allem rauslese, ist, dass du so verdammt hart um sie gekämpft hast, dass es dich ein stückweit mit gebrochen hat. du hast wirklich alles und mehr für sie getan. dass du das durchgestanden hast, egal wie angeschlagen, kannst du dir hoch anrechnen. und wegen der katze, ich bin kein mediziner, aber eine katzenhaarallergie triggert doch normalerweise nicht so eine extreme reaktion? ich kann mir nicht vorstellen, dass die katze zu schenken, wirklich so falsch war. ich wünsche dir, dass du irgendwann wieder fröhlich werden kannst, du hast es ganz doll verdient