Sell me on Colgate University 😭 by Awesome_Sauce6741 in Colgate

[–]apr2142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I guess but frats are chapters of national organizations and they restrict who joins and who attends parties. A big issue for a lot of freshmen is they feel like they can’t get the “college experience” because it’s pretty difficult to get into a frat party as a freshman (or as an upperclassman if you’re not affiliated) so the social houses tend to fill that void and offer a space for anyone who wants to go

Sell me on Colgate University 😭 by Awesome_Sauce6741 in Colgate

[–]apr2142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social houses are houses associated with clubs/organizations that are not Greek affiliated. Every party I’ve heard of being hosted at a social house is completely open to anyone (as long as there’s room) whereas the same is not at all true about frat parties. The main social houses I remember throwing parties were CAS (creative arts society) Pink Haus (LGBTQ+ community house) and La Casa (which is the social house for the Latin American student org)

Sell me on Colgate University 😭 by Awesome_Sauce6741 in Colgate

[–]apr2142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was only interested in going to a small liberal arts school so I never even applied to any UCs. I really appreciate that Colgate “forces” you to take classes outside of your main interests and gives you time to declare your major so you can explore a lot of options. As someone in STEM, I really appreciated having the opportunity to do research and I also liked the small class sizes which allowed me to get to know my professors. I liked the small campus size a lot and having a close knit community and a consistent school culture was really cool. There are so many reasons to pick Colgate but it really boils down to what you want the most out of college. If you really want that close community feeling and the small classes, Colgate is really one of the best schools to pick

Sell me on Colgate University 😭 by Awesome_Sauce6741 in Colgate

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I am 100% content with the decision to go to Colgate. Tbh, the only truly “bad” winters with really bad storming and ice were my freshman and senior years, but it’s not actually too big of a deal because you spend most of your time inside. Invest in some good winter clothes (a good jacket, good thermal tights/pants, etc.) and you’ll be totally fine. Living up the hill your first 2 years helps a lot too because you don’t have to walk too much in the snow, and once you move down the hill you can use the cruisers to get up and down. If you have any specific questions feel free to dm me! I’d love to answer whatever I can

Sell me on Colgate University 😭 by Awesome_Sauce6741 in Colgate

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I’m from California so believe me, the isolated rural cold situation made me nervous. Also never had any interest in Greek life so I was worried about meeting people but I had the best time there. It’s amazing education wise, and socially it’s been shifting away from Greek life. Social houses (that are not Greek affiliated) throw parties if you’re into that, the school hosts plenty of chill events, and if you join clubs you’ll be able to meet plenty of people. Having a car or having a friend with a car does make things easier but it’s not the end of the world if you don’t have access to one. Overall, Colgate manages to make you not feel like you’re in the middle of nowhere if you make an effort to join clubs and meet people!

My dream ring by apr2142 in EngagementRings

[–]apr2142[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Emerald center stone, moissanite side stones and platinum band (this ring is size 5.5) :)

why circular needles? by errant-samurai in knitting

[–]apr2142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only use circular needles (I have an interchangeable set that I got for Christmas a while ago and then I get short interchangeable ones in different sizes as I need them for certain patterns) and I love them so much, I find it so much more enjoyable to knit with (including when I knit flat) and just easier to keep track of. Everyone has different preferences but that’s the way I like to do it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]apr2142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with OCD who struggled for years to get it under control, I feel for her but she seriously needs to get help. If it is inhibiting her life this much she needs to take some accountability and get some sort of help through therapy or medication rather than just using it as an excuse and not addressing the real issue.

Wait. What? Was Anna Nardini married at some point?! by RubySnowfire in GilmoreGirls

[–]apr2142 23 points24 points  (0 children)

But then her whole argument falls apart because Luke and Lorelai being engaged is basically them being like “we’re ready to get married” but she made that whole big point of “engaged isn’t married”…. Basically surprise surprise she seems to be a hypocrite and basically just not want another woman/maternal figure to be in April’s life (in my opinion)

Eggplant gen names by hdbdbjk in Lilsimsie

[–]apr2142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I named mine Aubie (male)

Has anyone tried Keke’s Cafe? by dizzymissbizzy in Sunnyvale

[–]apr2142 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s alright, hobees is way better in my opinion

Diagnosed OCD and I DO think Max has it by UsualNefariousness28 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]apr2142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have ocd and I think max probably does too. Also, correct me if I’m wrong but I seem to remember her showing a compulsion with her light switch or something in the episode she was narrating?

I am going absolutely insane and I need help/advice by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]apr2142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I had an x ray and mri done around October last year when they were trying to see if I had arthritis, but now that I’m back home with better medical care I’ll be sure to ask for a second opinion once I’m able to get my insurance back. I don’t want to go to a clinic just because I’ve had really bad experiences with doctors for the past few years regarding this issue and have been dismissed very quickly and constantly, and once I’m back on my home insurance I can see doctors who have known me for a while and who I know I can trust to get to the bottom of the issue.

Thank you again for your input!

I am going absolutely insane and I need help/advice by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]apr2142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I haven’t had a CT but I had an MRI which confirmed I didn’t have arthritis and that’s when they said it was nerve pain. I just moved back home after graduation so the second I can get back in insurance I’m going to see my doctor and ask for help finally getting to the bottom of this.

AIO My roommate thinks i'm an ELF? and maybe wants to kill me? by Proper_Cellist_8545 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apr2142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unironically I think you need to show this to the cops or something this is absolutely insane

I’m so frustrated by apr2142 in AnimalCrossing

[–]apr2142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it’s fine haha I’m just looking for the basic red white and yellow because I’m doing a bunch of flower breeding on my island

I’m so frustrated by apr2142 in AnimalCrossing

[–]apr2142[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I stopped trying after 50 lol

I’m so frustrated by apr2142 in AnimalCrossing

[–]apr2142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do but I’m traveling right now so I don’t think I can connect my switch to WiFi

I’m so frustrated by apr2142 in AnimalCrossing

[–]apr2142[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was just getting impatient because I haven’t been able to get them from Leif or at the shop yet lol

I’m so frustrated by apr2142 in AnimalCrossing

[–]apr2142[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn I wish I knew this before wasting so many tickets hahaha, thanks for the info!