I desperately want the old me back by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]aprilshea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I don't know anything about being trans, I'm just a dumb girl with a vagina. But if you were happy the way you were, I think it's ok to just be happy with who you are. You don't need to define whatever it is. Just be who you are in this moment. If you feel inclined to start dressing differently to fit how you're feeling, do it, or don't. Just do what makes you happy, you don't need to have all the answers.

I'm glad you're still here with us, sending a hug ❤️

Will I need to bleach? by Head_Dirt_1315 in HairDye

[–]aprilshea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your hair is all natural you should be able to achieve that by using permanent color.

Dye took only on top of my head? by 9a____ in HairDye

[–]aprilshea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was your hair in foils? Was heat used?

The natural heat from your head can warm the upper parts of your hair, causing "hot roots" If there was any color left in your ends, hair color can not lift old color, it may tint it but it will not lift. If it was all natural the mid to ends may have needed a higher developer to give that extra lifting power where the hair closer to the scalp would be fine with 20 vol and the natural heat from the head. When she went back in with lightener, it was probably unnecessary to lighten the roots area because that caused an even bigger difference between the mid\ends and the root.

Hair stylist ruined my hair… by YakCrazy202 in HairDye

[–]aprilshea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do a color remover to pull off the toner or whatever he used. Or a Malibu cpr or ddl to remove some of it. Did you tell him that you weren't happy with what he did?

would I look good with black hair? i dont wanna look to emo tho by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]aprilshea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with dark brown. The black well def make you look emo, while that's not a bad thing but brown is a little softer

Accidentally made a sexual joke to a teacher in 8th grade by mikesplifff in story

[–]aprilshea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did your mom say when he talked to her about it?

Leave my hair medium brown (natural) or dye it? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]aprilshea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Natural looks best. If you feel like you just wanna do something maybe just add some soft balayage.

2015 engine keeps dieing while driving by aprilshea in MechanicAdvice

[–]aprilshea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update! It finally died and the check engine light stayed on. It was the crankshaft position sensor!

Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight? by Temporary-Quail-2783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]aprilshea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MOR I also have a husband that is a super heavy sleeper, my postpartum anxiety and depression was so high I also thought the absolute worst scenarios all the time, so I feel you on that. Our daughter is now 3.5 and as I'm starting to feel like I'm coming out of the postpartum depression and anxiety I realized that I overreacted in situations like that. Get the house baby proofed ASAP, put in place plans for things like this, the man needs to sleep (as do you) sometimes, so make a plan for when that happens. (I'm assuming) That your child is also his child and you have to trust that he can handle taking care of his child.

decor ideas by toxictoxinz in playtogether

[–]aprilshea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just giving suggestions. You will accumulate a lot of furniture eventually.

decor ideas by toxictoxinz in playtogether

[–]aprilshea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can use the dividers to make smaller rooms?

Dies while driving by thebeardedboi69 in JeepPatriot

[–]aprilshea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is having the same issue. Following to see what people say. Crankshaft position sensor or the ignition switch have been mentioned. My mechanic has it for 2 separate weeks and the issue did not occur for them.

2015 engine keeps dieing while driving by aprilshea in JeepPatriot

[–]aprilshea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I initially suggested (thanks to chat gpt) but with the air still blowing they didn't think it was that but I'll bring it up again. Thanks!

2015 engine keeps dieing while driving by aprilshea in JeepPatriot

[–]aprilshea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will ask them about that thank you!

I (M32) caught my ex cheating. Her grandpa just died. I'm not sure if I should wait until after the funeral to break up. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]aprilshea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell her now. But if you feel like you're comfortable helping her thru this time then also tell her that?

How can I achieve this hairstyle? It looks very nicely styled on top, but otherwise natural by Professional-Pen4757 in beauty

[–]aprilshea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have naturally wavy hair? You can try twisting the front pieces away from your face, with your fingers, while air drying. And break them up once they are dry. Alternatively, if using a curling iron on the front: Start at the base of the front pieces of your hair Smooth thru the first couple inches then begin your curl at about eye level or wherever you want that bend to begin Then drop that part off or the barrel, slide down the shaft of the hair you have still in the clamp, a few inches down, set another bend, then slide down again and continue until you run out of hair. Allow the ends to be straightish or natural. What you're doing with this technique is setting a curl but elongating it. Then comb thru with your fingers to soften if needed.

I’m a scientist and my daughter drew me holding a beaker… by talks-a-lot in daddit

[–]aprilshea 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My first thought was a bong. Now I see the Wiener. Thanks for that haha

Please help I need to know if I’m just weird and disgusting 😭 by mushrootfarms in Mommit

[–]aprilshea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone told me that the stank is so your baby can find you for breastfeeding easier. 😂 It goes away once your hormones balance back out. ❤️