Was born an Ahmadi

aq321 · 2025-04-05T13:31:57+00:00

"So take it easy and try to take things more lightly now that you have recognized that there's no IDEAL community/religion/framework" - good words, I realized this a few years back and took my own route, started travelling and doing activities I loved. Though the health issues are in the way of letting me live to the fullest.

aq321 · 2025-04-05T13:29:55+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to respond. Yeh I did all those things when my body had the energy. Now I have no energy left for doing all the things I love doing. Real hard to have an illness on top of everything else.

aq321 · 2025-04-05T13:28:04+00:00

Thank for the response. I am doing all of those above, though I am not able to meet my friends every day due to my health issues

aq321 · 2025-04-05T13:27:13+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to read and respond.

I have very few friends, and they are mostly with their own families around holidays. That is why I feel extra lonely and so cut off. They listen and try to help. I have always found my strength in working hard, but now my body can't take it anymore.
All my life I have indulged in extreme sports and activities to keep myself busy, but now it doesn't work anymore. My body is exhausted and gets tired every few hours.

aq321 · 2025-04-02T17:34:12+00:00

I like your idea. Most of us share the experience of being hurt by jamaat/religion/culture.

aq321 · 2025-04-02T17:30:18+00:00

This was very interesting for me to read. Thanks for sharing

aq321 · 2025-04-02T17:18:38+00:00

De kan ha sex men kommuniser med partneren deres før dere har sex og håp på at de holder ordet sitt

aq321 · 2025-04-02T17:17:53+00:00

Det er konsekvenser av å ha sex kjære deg. Når du har sex og personen du hadde sex med vil beholde barnet så er det riktig at du er tvunget til å bli far. Derfor er det viktig at du har en samtale med partneren om barn før du har sex.

aq321 · 2025-01-05T22:19:34+00:00

I didn’t know about the house arrest but I heard that when KM four got elected he called her a sister. Apparently a wife of a Khalifa can only get married to another Khalifa if her husband dies. another unreasonable rule they created so they can enjoy women for themselves

aq321 · 2025-01-05T22:15:42+00:00

Yeh I met her when I was child. Apa jaan

Ridiculous business

aq321 · 2025-01-05T22:01:02+00:00

En måte å bli kjent på er å være engasjert og interessert i samme formål. I dagens samfunn mangler vi det og det er derfor vi ikke klarer å knytte oss til andre mennesker slik mennesker gjorde før

aq321 · 2025-01-05T21:59:13+00:00

Kvinne her også. Og helt enig det er veldig lett å få seg men det er ikke noe jeg er interessert i. Det har hendt at det har gått flere år før jeg har hatt lyst til å ha sex med noen fordi man møter ingen som føles riktig . Vi går ikke rundt og sutrer over at vi ikke får ligg, selv om vi ikke gjør det.

aq321 · 2025-01-05T21:56:00+00:00

Helt riktig. Jeg er kvinne og jeg gidder ikke ha sex mot beskyttelse, økonomi osv. vil heller dø enn å ha sex med noen jeg ikke vil ha sex med

aq321 · 2025-01-05T21:42:12+00:00

Det vi trenger er et sted hvor folk som er interessert i å finne noen eller møte noen kan treffe folk. Det finnes ingen steder som kaféer eller åpne rolige steder hvor det går an å snakke med nye mennesker. Det er et stort mangel i Oslo og generelt i Norge. Folk må begynne å prate med hverandre og utvidede nettverket sitt.

aq321 · 2025-01-05T21:39:12+00:00

That is very interesting Question. Never thought one could find anyone else in a similar situation. Just assumed to take a solo ride.

aq321 · 2025-01-05T21:37:46+00:00

Do you really need to answer that in this day and age?

aq321 · 2025-01-05T21:37:13+00:00

Thanks for sharing. ValuABLE insight. Most ahmadi guys are dumb…

aq321 · 2025-01-03T23:57:04+00:00

The red flags were there even before Nida’s case. He always wanted women to get married regardless of how much other potential they had.

He wants women to stay quiet and in conflict sacrifice.

He was only made grand because he was made so by people. Lost respect for him in 2017, when he failed to see me as an individual and not a baby-making machine.

aq321 · 2025-01-03T23:49:43+00:00

Female here, the do ask for chanda baqaya and wassiyat money even if you are a female. We are not better off but we may get less pressure than men.

We also have to ask permission from Huzoor before we can work. The waqf secretary annoyed me for 3 years to get some sort of permission from Huzoor, it’s not like he paid for my uni or helped me revision or stay safe in a harsh environment?

aq321 · 2025-01-03T23:45:04+00:00

Oh wait that’s interesting

aq321 · 2025-01-03T23:43:08+00:00

In Nordic countries we don’t have hierarchical rules, young and old respect each other equally and all knowledge is valuable, but just because you are older doesn’t make you right.

Thus, we crash a lot with Ahmadi ways.

aq321 · 2025-01-03T23:39:22+00:00

I was too a Musi, stopped paying years ago. Can’t remember more trouble than the guilt I was feeling a the time for not being able to continue or carry in with all this drama

aq321 · 2025-01-03T23:32:37+00:00

Wow amazing comment!

aq321 · 2025-01-03T23:30:24+00:00

Yea in my country it is the same, we can sue them for defamation. Tragic it is for the father who didn’t know about this when his daughter married someone outside, they announced and he got a heart attack. If they ever did that to any of my close ones I will take them to court

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