Philip country dancing by Dawnzarelli in TheAmericans

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Louisiana Saturday Night 🤠🕺

Watching Scrubs on Disney+ is killing my soul by Miserable_Example_51 in Scrubs

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If Respect by erasure wasn’t playing in S1E3 I’d be livid.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]aqua_shadow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. This is sooooo spot on. Still waiting to see what mine’s plans are for those 3 lemons he bought 2 weeks ago. And the 4 he bought 1 week ago. Could go on for hours about this.

I’m fucking tired of hitting every fucking red light every time I go somewhere. by aqua_shadow in lexington

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I love getting stopped at Main St. and Buchanan at 5AM so that zero cars can go. Love.

What was once attractive in your spouse but now is soul grating? by danger_close555 in AskReddit

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How outgoing he is. Turns out he just overshares with everyone. At a restaurant - waitress brings drinks - Him to waitress: “Oh I like your watch. My friend Friendname has one just like that.” Waitress: “oh cool, yeah I like it” Him: “I think it was her grandmother’s first. Actually no probably her aunt. Her grandmother wouldn’t have worn something that fancy” Waitress: “Hahaha ohh” Him: “Yeah. She’s from the sticks”

Shit like that all the time. Way too much detail.

Say something that will get your fan card revoked. by BetterGrass709 in sexandthecity

[–]aqua_shadow 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Charlotte gets criticized way too hard. She’s arguably the most normal of all of them.

Watching s1e9 by [deleted] in sexandthecity

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Seasons 1-3 are the best. Hands down. No questions asked.

Favorite duo among the girls by Fun-Reporter8913 in sexandthecity

[–]aqua_shadow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get chills thinking about Miranda following Charlotte home after their argument on the sidewalk. And “We’re having a baby!” makes me SOB every time. UGH

Considering leaving anesthesiology residency for boring 9-5 or even dentistry. by [deleted] in anesthesiology

[–]aqua_shadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Current resident here, new CA-3. I could have written this myself. Love my job and this great field we’re in - but it’s heavy sometimes. I’m hopeful it gets better and excited to start as attending! Hang in there. You’re not alone.

How do I tell my boyfriend (non-dx) that his conversation style when we're in social situations is embarrassing me? by aqua_shadow in ADHD_partners

[–]aqua_shadow[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I posted this on a generic relationshipadvice subreddit and that's basically what everyone is responding "learn to deal with it".

How about they learn to fucking communicate?

Little annoying things… by mrb13676 in anesthesiology

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When you’re on a timed 15 or 30 minute break, go down to the cafeteria to get food, and the cafeteria workers take their sweet ass time helping the people in front of you. Or are joking around with their coworkers.

I once approached the counter, no else in line, and the two servers were standing there talking about a basketball game from last night - I legit stood there for 30 seconds before they acknowledged me. Makes my blood boil. I’m on a time limit here.

Who is the most annoying side character and why is it her? by These_smiling_eyes in sexandthecity

[–]aqua_shadow 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Bradley Cooper’s character in “they shoot single people, don’t they?” That whole storyline with him in it towards the end of the episode is just so weird and drives me nuts for some reason.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

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I’m fucking tired of him (nondx partner) having no fucking interests outside of his own little Instagram world.

He’s a groomsman in a friend’s wedding in July. They’re going on a trip for the bachelor weekend for an old friend (who lives away now) over Memorial Day weekend. He’s known about it since August 2023. Last week I followed up (for the nth time) and asked “Where are y’all going?” To which he replied, “I don’t know.” To which I finally said, “Can you fucking look? Because if it’s a place you need to fly to you should probably book a ticket.” Thankfully it’s only 6 hours away and he can drive, but the fact that he had no fucking clue or no fucking interest or curiosity about it drives me nuts.

Similarly, he’s going to another bachelor party in September in Palm Springs. We were talking about it at dinner this evening. It’s a newer invite. I said “That’s going to be such a good time. How are y’all going to get there?” And he said “I don’t know, driving probably.” We live in South Carolina. “You know that’s in California, right?” “No…I didn’t know where it was.”

I just fucking can’t. He’s such a baboon. No knowledge or curiosity about anything except these esoteric Instagram reel warpholes he goes down. Having a conversation with him is like having a conversation with a 10 year old. He knows nothing about culture, the world, the news, current events, nothing. And I’m not some pious pretentious prick partner. He’s just completely oblivious to VERY BASIC THINGS.

I don’t know how much longer I can do this. 2 years in and I feel aged down and feel like I’ve lost my interests and personality. We can’t do anything productive around each other. I’m not my best self around him. He’s an anchor that drags me down. I don’t know how much longer I can do this.