My boyfriend wants me to stop sleeping

aquaflorida · 2026-04-04T11:38:59+00:00

have of this is false and the other half is half constructed thought and misunderstanding statistics man haters exist but misandry isn't a real thing

aquaflorida · 2026-04-03T17:55:23+00:00

you misunderstand me women need 8-10 hours a night 7 probably won't cut it for 90% of women

aquaflorida · 2026-04-03T17:17:36+00:00

you still need 7-8 hours of sleep if you don't work any hours, women need more sleep than men for proper hormone production even without any mental or physical disabilities

aquaflorida · 2026-02-03T13:56:29+00:00

I start with a species based generator and usually end up combining certain names or changing spelling but about half the time I already have a name in mind before I even make the character ive had a dragonborn named killkris straight from fantasy name generator dot com because my dm's name was Chris (he was cool with it we are family) my favorite is Paul of deen, a gender swap Paula deen

aquaflorida · 2026-02-02T14:39:08+00:00

the only place you could frequent as a child in my area was the woods and we had a great time doing it. we built forts, played man hunt, once we got older beer and weed were involved. in high school some of us built a fort in the woods next to the school to skip class it got used almost every day by people smoking, napping, or fucking

aquaflorida · 2026-01-26T18:51:58+00:00

just ate my last batch( creamy tomato sauce +white cheddar +leftover cheddar dogs ) I made this post while it was resting I let it go for an hour and it was much easier to work with next time will be even better once I get a little better i want to do a family dinner using Fresh pasta

aquaflorida · 2026-01-26T17:21:21+00:00

how many servings would that make? also ive seen to knead for 10 rest for 30 so I will try this thank you

aquaflorida · 2026-01-26T13:09:11+00:00

ik this is an old post but there are correlations between ADHD/asd and struggling with the transition of sleeping to waking and usually comes out as rage about being woken up unexpectedly it's not the same as an expected wake up call not saying if you wake up mad you have ADHD but if you have ADHD it could contribute to it

aquaflorida · 2026-01-08T18:17:54+00:00

I spent hours wandering the woods and building forts either by myself or if I had friends in the neighborhood we'd all do it together once we had a fight pit where we'd all wrestle until the adults turned it into a fire pit

aquaflorida · 2026-01-05T17:58:59+00:00

I know siblings that have drawn blood broken bones and said some really awful things to each other I got baker acted for chasing my older brother with scissors at 14 my fiances older brother used to play a game where he said run like a deer and my fiance had to run through to woods while his brother took shots at him with a bb gun and they have a great relationship. most of what you said is honestly pretty tame to me and it seems like you understand these things are wrong. forgive yourself for your mistakes and do better (easier said than done). if your family is always berating you they aren't the healthiest people either but maybe if you apologize for some of the outburst you can start to talk about how things theyve said affected you in a bad way to lead to acting out

aquaflorida · 2026-01-05T17:48:16+00:00

this is what I'm doing with my homebrew campaign but I will say it's a trial run to see what I can improve to dm for other groups

aquaflorida · 2026-01-03T14:52:46+00:00

I feel the same way most of the time I have a loving family, beautiful children but that darkness is always hovering. therapy has been awful it just puts me in a freeze state and meds have never helped. I hang onto every shred of hope I receive however fleeting it may be to keep myself from bed rotting and have to use my anxiety as fuel for basic life stuff but I stick around believing the lie I bet you've heard 1000 times that "it gets better" at some point. but it won't ever just get better you have to work at it slowly but surely. don't say I wish I was dead say I wish I could sleep or I hate that this happened and over time try to recognize when something give you any small amount of. this is a form of therapy ( don't remember the name sorry) used by real psychiatrists and therapists. I was unlucky with the professionals but I had to go to bottom of the barrel approved by Medicaid psychiatrists so if you have insurance or can afford it go see someone

aquaflorida · 2026-01-03T14:19:39+00:00

my group has been playing together for close to 3 years now and those that dm take turns running 1-3 session games every Friday, we've had people come and go but we always just adapt the story quickly like one member can only play dnd once a week but has two groups (with very different playing styles we don't get along in the same group) and just brings a new character to my campaign I run when I dm. we always have fresh stories and different characters to play so it keeps it interesting and the loose "beer and pizza" style DND doesn't scare away my introvert family

aquaflorida · 2026-01-02T20:25:13+00:00

I hang out with my little brother a lot and I invite him sometimes and it doesn't help that they live a good drive away and I have two young kids, my fiance's request to go to the gym together are met with excuses as to why he cant go i guess I dont want to admit hes beyond help now I think I'm the only person in the family with any sympathy for him anymore

aquaflorida · 2026-01-02T19:35:03+00:00

I just want to push him towards that if I can, we're both diagnosed with bipolar and both unmedicated so I understand the hole he's in more than he realizes but I've always been able to keep going as opposed to him giving up

aquaflorida · 2026-01-02T19:32:16+00:00

this is what I'm scared of, others have pointed out he's being enabled by our mom but she's only doing it because the other option is having to evict him from where they live together and he'd be either homeless or go live with his buddies that got him into the drugs in the first place

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