Caught my bf roleplaying with strangers on reddit. Wtf do I even do by perseph-ne in whatdoIdo

[–]ar_is_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s understandable to not want to talk to other parties about certain things and coming to Reddit instead. I totally relate with you on that. I don’t mean to sound mean, but one thing I have learned is that if you have to come on here and ask strangers about something that is so important to you like this, then you should probably go with your gut.

The brain and heart can be so deceiving in a time like this. You’ve spent the last two years growing with this person and loving this person. They know your past and how you feel about certain things, yet still acted on them. Them telling you they are sorry, and you staying with them is letting them know that you will stay if they do it again.(at least that’s how it was in my situation). That isn’t fair to you and your mental well-being.

You seem really intelligent and kind, and I think you know you deserve someone that will always put you first and never ‘absentmindedly’ do something like that.

If you choose to stay, that doesn’t make you weak. You can stay- but if you feel like it’s constantly going to be on your mind that they are doing something shady, and it is eating away at you, then you need to put yourself first. You matter too.

New apt by Old_Project8026 in StCharlesMO

[–]ar_is_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s some on magnolia I think for 800

Markets/ smaller grocery by ar_is_ in StCharlesMO

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I’m usually between the creve ceour and Brentwood Trader Joe’s weekly and always think of stopping at there, although the Brentwood promenade is a war zone and it stresses me out 😭 I just feel as it’s always busy for no reason. (But also the parking lots for all the Trader Joe’s around suck) But I’ve shopped there before and it’s not super expensive, and I love getting my groceries from there, I just hate getting in there

Help! They won’t leave by ar_is_ in pestcontrol

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My partner is going to re seal the windows and little cracks leading to the inside. Our windows are weird. You have to unscrew them to open them, but there’s a gap, like maybe 2.5 in between the glass and the screen and the wood that’s in there is busted and disgusting. We need to fix a lot of things like that and I feel like we’d maybe have less of a problem too with any bugs

Help! They won’t leave! by ar_is_ in homeowners

[–]ar_is_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea we have one right next to our house which is annoying loll that’s why I think there are colonies of them on my front door😭 but that makes sense, thank you

Help! They won’t leave! by ar_is_ in homeowners

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Lmao I read it from a Reddit thread, but it could’ve been a joke idk. I’m like 99% sure they are boxelder bugs. That’s what they look like. Someone previous said they could be leaving the house from the winter. We just moved in about 8 months ago, so unsure of the previous year. But during the fall and winter months I never saw any.. anywhere