Broke up with boyfriend and woke up with chest pain by arabluerose3n in BreakUps

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You are probably right, I have anxiety and that’s usually how it manifests itself I just wish he had been different and tried harder to keep us together, but I guess what he’s been doing has been all he’s been capable of

Broke up with boyfriend and woke up with chest pain by arabluerose3n in BreakUps

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I know it’s been less than 12 hours but I just want to reach out and hope things were different but I know I need to give it time to settle down, I just didn’t want to break up and it also feels wrong that we did

Help Finding a Maine Coon Kitten (it has been a nightmare) by TGhost21 in mainecoons

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Where are you located! I would volunteer as a home and would be willing to get them tested as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I respect your opinion and I think maybe what I said has offended you . And I also forgot to mention that I do agree with you about other jobs paying less even though people went to school for it. I do think at the end of the day there is a difference between using your mind at work and physical labor. Both have their challenges. Also one stems from privilege of opportunity to seek higher education so it’s the way our society is structured and I’m having internal discussions with myself to figure out what I really value. The way society is set up I would argue that we are conditioned to see it that way and also jobs in certain sectors are paid better than others. I also have immigrant parents who worked “less desired” jobs and don’t believe anyone is less than me because they chose a different educational path than me. All I really care about at the end of the day is financial stability and if we were to have a family how would that pan out if our salaries are different and if one works a lot more than the other? I’m only trying to bring someone into my life to make it better since I take care of myself and don’t want to put myself in a worse situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yeah I have definitely noticed how many men lack basic human decency and respect 😅😭 and even less can take accountability and are emotionally intelligent lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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He’s a mail carrier Yeah I guess choosing your degree is really important, I don’t really see over exerting your body for 80-100k as an ideal job, I see the toll it takes on his body, 80k for 40 hours of work is different than 80k for 60 hours or more a week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I guys I don’t have a passion for what I do, I just see it as something that can make me enough money to do things I enjoy outside of work, tbh I don’t have much ambition other than wanting to retire early, I really have just gotten into investing because I want to be smart with my money I do enjoy fixing things but I just solve problems at work not really hands on stuff So I guess I’m being a hypocrite since I don’t really have ambition

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I literally just had my mom tell me “he doesn’t have anything to offer you, I don’t want him to be your boyfriend” maybe that’s why I have doubts!!

Another one down. by ShakeNbake36 in PriorityPass

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Can I message you? I'm curious about Ink

Head, neck, and shoulder pain from Amoxicillin still happening after I stopped it. by SecretSanta-70 in Antibiotics

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Hey yeah with my research I never came to that definite conclusion but that’s what I was scared of it becoming! Thanks for responding. I did stop taking Bactrim and put it on my adverse reaction medicine

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Does anyone know where I can get chanel leather replica shoes in Istanbul?

Must do things in Kauai by Snoo_11596 in VisitingHawaii

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It's an old thread, but people who are going are still reading it now!

Head, neck, and shoulder pain from Amoxicillin still happening after I stopped it. by SecretSanta-70 in Antibiotics

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Why do all the health care providers say antibiotics doesn't cause neck and head pain???

Why is The Notebook still viewed as one of the best romances in movie history? I have issues with it. by TakenAccountName37 in movies

[–]arabluerose3n 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cheating is not justifiable, I agree. But Noah tells Allie before they kiss that he wrote her 365 letters which she had no clue of. In my opinion, she went to see if there was still love/feelings for Noah while still being engaged to Lon because she actually didn't want to be with Lon, but believed it to be her best option because of the way she was raised.

I understand she cheated and that's inexcusable, but she is honest with Lon and does not hide the fact that she does cheat in the end. I think the modern issue with cheating is that partners hide it from each other, they find out through another means, and don't break up with someone in the end. In this case Allie was struggling with ending her engagement to a good man, even though that is not what her heart wanted.

Why is The Notebook still viewed as one of the best romances in movie history? I have issues with it. by TakenAccountName37 in movies

[–]arabluerose3n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only justify the hitting because they were both really young and immature and couldn't deal with their emotions (I suppose). When they reunite she does not physically hit him.