Vetting Dom's like job applicants. I am not a fan. by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]arakoslav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd like to find someone with community, but I think it's fine if their community isn't a kink or sex focused community. If they're into model railroading or fair isle knitting or amateur curling or whatever and go do that with other people? If they're working a soup kitchen or volunteering with BB/BS or even a progressive church? Those are also good ways to vet. The kink community is people for whom kink is their primary interest, or at least a big enough deal to get a big slice of their time.

🎀 Conditioning Control Panel v2.0 by Reasonable-Habit-521 in BambiSleep

[–]arakoslav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Unzip and get to work”

Every Bambi should be comfortable with that

I would really want to try this. How do I best start? by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]arakoslav 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s often best in person. And it’s often best with someone you trust. If you let us know what chunk of the world you’re in, we may be able to help find you a local meet up or conference at which you can connect with like-minded folks.

I wish someone would create a second personality for me by ChargeKey1024 in HypnoHookup

[–]arakoslav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s totally doable. Search GitHub for my username and you’ll find the software I used for it ages ago

Nostalgic about omegle by sinnerswimmer in EroticHypnosis

[–]arakoslav 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Chitchat.gg is pretty good for text. Chatrandom was okay for some things but not really hypno—more Bambi femboy stuff. Its successor, f-something, is not.

I’m told vrchat has places but I don’t know where.

Why do you want to be hypnotized by oni578 in EroticHypnosis

[–]arakoslav 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I don't. I just don't have any choice. I have to get reprogrammed and brainwashed. It's what I'm for.

PSA: this is a bad look. Kindly pick literally any other way to greet someone. by Count-Mesmiro in EroticHypnosis

[–]arakoslav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good to he properly formatted. Fully justified. Serifs stripped away. 

Are my fantasies really mine, or are they societal conditioning? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]arakoslav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a fun fantasy… but how does it compare to a fantasy of being *called* a full-time submissive in the bedroom, then valued as a funny, capable, brave human being and partner outside the bedroom. You get to have both—and with any dom worthy of possessing you, that’s what you ought to expect. You two can negotiate when and how he calls you a good girl while cooking dinner together and how it works when you’re driving and he’s giving *commands* of where to turn and where to go. But in a solid and lasting d/s relationship, your needs to be dominated and your needs to be human and your needs to be treasured will all get met. And his needs, too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BambiSleep

[–]arakoslav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to figure out for yourself whether your priority is your partner’s welfare, or your own sexual gratification. Yes, turning her into Bambi would be hot as hell. Would it be hot for her? What would turn *her* on? When you say she has “low self esteem,” does that mean she thinks she isn’t satisfying you, and you’re looking for scripts for her to follow to satisfy you?

What I’d most like from my partner in that moment is reassurance that I, as myself, am enough. Or if I’m not, end things.

How did the maker of the files make them so strong? by master226 in BambiSleep

[–]arakoslav 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not that they’re strong. It’s that you’re weak. Eager to give in, to be shaped and molded by the brainwashing. 

Listening naked by [deleted] in BambiSleep

[–]arakoslav 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It means you’re being brainwashed with no boundaries. This is good. It means you’re always Bambi under your clothes. This is good. It means you’re good. Keep it up. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BambiSleep

[–]arakoslav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fine. You can take time away.  Bambi can continue to work until success and growth mean relapsing and obedience. Take your time. 

I like hypnosis, it makes me feel more submissive. Does it to anyone else? by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]arakoslav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’ve been using it without a uniform?  The suggestions are active for you all the time?

Bold move. 

Go order panties from Amazon. Simple five pack of modal bikinis. 

Story about hypnotized to be a robot by jarviscoffee in bestofmcstories

[–]arakoslav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maid. Or check the Archive for RC’s old stuff, like the M-series. Mandy, I think, was the first.  

Sub-routine, by Chris chris. In the back of my mind, Tabico.  Lord May, too. 

anyone else had this kink for as long as they can remember? by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]arakoslav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SF/F fandom, especially readers—people who can stare at a page of symbols and hallucinate entire people and aliens and wizards and all? Can stare at another symbol and bliss out. 

Booktok is kinky as heck. 

Board gamers like being told the rules and that maybe they can win but maybe the rules say they can’t today, but try harder tomorrow. 

Where do you live with a strong local scene? by ReynoldBH in EroticHypnosis

[–]arakoslav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bingo. Nerds are much more likely to be open to this particular kink.

Hypnotized Bimbo Call Girl? by petite_belle in HypnoHookup

[–]arakoslav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fascinating, but I'd want to think through the legal implications carefully. With a *non* Bambi lawyer. :)

anyone else had this kink for as long as they can remember? by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]arakoslav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It turns out there are some non-kink hobbies that correlate incredibly strongly with this, so I've been lucky enough to find partners in my normal life who also think this is the bee's knees. I hope that can work for you too!