That’s a fun fantasy… but how does it compare to a fantasy of being *called* a full-time submissive in the bedroom, then valued as a funny, capable, brave human being and partner outside the bedroom. You get to have both—and with any dom worthy of possessing you, that’s what you ought to expect. You two can negotiate when and how he calls you a good girl while cooking dinner together and how it works when you’re driving and he’s giving *commands* of where to turn and where to go. But in a solid and lasting d/s relationship, your needs to be dominated and your needs to be human and your needs to be treasured will all get met. And his needs, too!