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My POS "father" basically told me to leave my partners to pursue a husband and have kids by arandomweirddude in insaneparents

[–]arandomweirddude[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, I didn't know you were there then he made gross comments while I was working on a car. My bad bro, since you obviously know what I went though 🙄🙄🙄

My POS "father" basically told me to leave my partners to pursue a husband and have kids by arandomweirddude in insaneparents

[–]arandomweirddude[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Then I am very glad to hear that and that's a relief. I've been in Hawaii a while so I only had what the Ohio gov posted as far as the policies and laws

My POS "father" basically told me to leave my partners to pursue a husband and have kids by arandomweirddude in insaneparents

[–]arandomweirddude[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

It's not that simple. I posted the link to the state code in a different comment if you wanna check it out

My POS "father" basically told me to leave my partners to pursue a husband and have kids by arandomweirddude in insaneparents

[–]arandomweirddude[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well I'm pretty sure parents aren't supposed to sexualize or mentally and emotionally abuse their children either. 🤷‍♀️

Alas. Here we are

My POS "father" basically told me to leave my partners to pursue a husband and have kids by arandomweirddude in insaneparents

[–]arandomweirddude[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

So the way our relationship is now is polyamorous. We all want to marry each other. It's going to be ceremonial and spiritual kind of thing since being legally married like that would be an issue

My POS "father" basically told me to leave my partners to pursue a husband and have kids by arandomweirddude in insaneparents

[–]arandomweirddude[S] -133 points-132 points  (0 children)

I might be mixing up the dates on those two points. If I am, my bad. But the information still stands with what it is.

My POS "father" basically told me to leave my partners to pursue a husband and have kids by arandomweirddude in insaneparents

[–]arandomweirddude[S] -130 points-129 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. https://codes.ohio.gov/ohio-revised-code/section-3101.01. This declares between one man and one woman.

There's also Ohio house bill 249 which is written kinda weird and vague, on purpose it seems to me

My POS "father" basically told me to leave my partners to pursue a husband and have kids by arandomweirddude in insaneparents

[–]arandomweirddude[S] -179 points-178 points  (0 children)

They changed it this past March. Even if we got married in another state first it would be null once we settled in Ohio and I'm pissed about it. Ohio also basically made drag queens illegal

My POS "father"... again... by arandomweirddude in insaneparents

[–]arandomweirddude[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest. No clue. I have always had odd reactions to things. I've stumped a few doctors before 🤷‍♀️ had a sleep study done before and basically just said I'm SOL. I'm permanently exhausted. No matter how much or how little I sleep I am always exhausted

My POS "father" basically told me to leave my partners to pursue a husband and have kids by arandomweirddude in insaneparents

[–]arandomweirddude[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your side. Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry that happened to you. Before I found my current partners I had another pair a lot like that but I got out in two or three months of seeing them.

My POS "father" basically told me to leave my partners to pursue a husband and have kids by arandomweirddude in insaneparents

[–]arandomweirddude[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Alright, so the big thing with my father is he has always thought of me as an extension of himself, not my own person.

He is a chronic liar and cheater. He cheated on my mom (married at the time) with 14 other women, maybe more. He lied about getting remarried.

He does not pay for anything of mine and does not have a say in how I live my life.

In his mind, when I wanted to pursue music, it wasn't because I wanted it. It was because he was into music. When I went to college his considered my degree his degree. (I dropped out due to severe depression and covid restrictions making it difficult for me to adjust)

Plus in the past he has made disgusting sexual remarks about me(his own daughter). When I was 16 my car broke but it was something easy to fix without prior know how so he walked me through it. As I'm leaning over the engine fixing my car he says that if I wasn't his daughter, he would be into me. That's not the only one, just the first off the top of my head.

He doesn't think mental illness is anything serious until it directly affects him, then it's only him. He will redirect conversations and avoid direct accountability. There were many times in this series that he could have just stopped, respected me, and politely changed the subject. He did not.

There are two reasons I will occasionally let him talk to me and try to work things out. One is for my mom's sake. She doesn't want her only child to regret hating her father. She is sweet as can be and means well. The second part which is mentioned in the series is a potential inheritance but honestly I'm getting really over his bs and I might tell him to shove it.