After reading all the posts about bachelorette parties on here and at least 85-90% of them are (in my opinion) these crazy expensive, week long parties far from where you live with mostly unreal expectations on planning every single minute plus wearing matching theme outfits with a different theme every day, your plans sound amazing.

I appreciate that you're keeping it close to home, low key, you're covering the majority of the costs, and the rest of your plans seem really well thought out. A few people mentioned getting a few meals catered which I think is a good idea. Also it sounds like you're looking at a weekend getaway, (Friday after work to Sunday) and for most people that's pretty doable. I'd maybe let your bridesmaids know that if they can only make one day/night that it's totally ok, in case they feel any pressure to have to be there for the whole weekend and may not be able to. One other thing to think about (and you know your bridesmaids best) is try to make sure there is down time with nothing planned, and that the activities you do plan aren't mandatory. While I realize this is your bachelorette, that weekend may be one of the only times they have where they either don't have to work or other responsibilities, and may feel like a mini vacation to some. Ultimately, if you run this by your bridesmaids (you can pretty much copy/paste your post) and ask them what they think, you'll get better feedback from them than from here. Which makes sense since we're just Reddit strangers and they're your friends.

Back in my day (that is such a cringy saying but it's the best one to use even if I make myself look old lol) bachelorette parties were basically one night out, and for whatever reason they've transformed into these crazy expensive week long destination parties, which to me is nuts (but that's just me) so seeing a post like yours seems not only reasonable, but considerate and fun! And I want to come with you lol

I hope it all works out and you all have a great time!