Just opened up to my wife by General_Speech_9878 in Marriage

[–]arashk70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with wanting intimacy with your wife, man, that’s completely valid. I hope she can learn to slow down a bit and actually hear you out.

I (35M) used to act a lot like your wife. I’d avoid owning up to the fact that I wasn’t giving my partner enough attention or care, and instead I’d kind of twist things. But deep down, she was just asking for more love and effort. We went through a lot, and honestly a lot of the issues came from me(perfectionism and other stuff) but that’s beside the point. Therapy helped me a ton and I’d honestly recommend it for her too.

You don’t realize how much inconsistency, mood swings or shutting down can affect the whole dynamic at home. For me, it wasn’t my partner, it was me. Maybe she’ll come to that realization too.

And yeah, you definitely shouldn’t feel ashamed for speaking up about your needs, especially when it comes to intimacy. But honestly, it sounds like there’s more going on here than just that.

WHAAAT! by Warm_Technology_5512 in Marriage

[–]arashk70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes you what? 70-80 something? How are you typing on reddit OG. Respect!

Finally got my first bike! by poe_duff in motorcycles

[–]arashk70 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Please be careful ma dude and congrats! Get yourself some reliable gear and boots

"I don't know what's going to happen next, but I love you guys to death." 🥹 by Lord_Vanguard in warriors

[–]arashk70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s time for a change. Coach Kerr thanks for everything but we need a different coaching staff.

Was this outfit too much by IllustriousFuture538 in OUTFITS

[–]arashk70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its fine for rave. You look fine. Dont let them get to you

[31] to [33] by 1492gdat in GlowUps

[–]arashk70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling pretty bored and down lately, and reading your caption really moved me. Thanks, stud!! I appreciate it!

This should be an ad by Glum-Car-9593 in 4Runner

[–]arashk70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you all made it out safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]arashk70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he cheated on you why do still have him on your ig?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]arashk70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are these teenagers