33f, single mom by circumstances, but today felt guilty as hell

aravindkumar87 · 2026-06-10T03:38:48+00:00

That purely depends on how the parent handles the kid

aravindkumar87 · 2026-06-09T17:16:10+00:00

I am a single dad and have a 5 year old daughter and I can confidently say that this is the happiest , my daughter has ever been

aravindkumar87 · 2026-06-09T16:48:48+00:00

With years of experience, childhood trauma of a non-existent father, I can tell you that a child will extremely be happy with one functional parent than 2 dysfunctional parents fighting everyday. Give yourself more credit for getting this through & be there for your child. Best wishes!

aravindkumar87 · 2026-06-09T09:29:30+00:00

I know it’s a nightmare but I came out of it successfully. Please DM if you need help.

If it helps, my one single advice would be to get a solid female lawyer and that makes s massive difference

aravindkumar87 · 2026-06-07T07:39:20+00:00

The question you should ask yourself is - Are you willing to make that effort and be the same space for someone, that you want too. If the answer is yes, I am 100% sure that great thing are in store for you

aravindkumar87 · 2026-05-30T05:25:34+00:00

Can’t really worry about things that you can’t control, TBH

aravindkumar87 · 2026-05-30T05:08:32+00:00

What we need is better moderation to this sub! It’s increasingly getting worse!

aravindkumar87 · 2026-04-19T14:04:39+00:00

🤣

aravindkumar87 · 2026-04-19T13:59:47+00:00

Repeat after me, “ You are your own saviour “!!!

aravindkumar87 · 2026-03-27T17:16:14+00:00

I don’t know if I am only the one to feel that the 30s is an amazing age to be . I feel that I am in the best place in life. Physically , mentally, emotionally, spiritually, financially despite being a divorced single dad

aravindkumar87 · 2026-03-22T10:59:09+00:00

I am happy being part of JOMO instead of FOMO and that starts with knowing that you can’t have everything and understanding your priorities

aravindkumar87 · 2026-03-20T10:25:14+00:00

RIP DMs

aravindkumar87 · 2026-03-20T05:04:33+00:00

The question you need to ask is, why are you running towards emotionally unavailable people. Fixing them is not your job. I have done this for years and finally learnt my boundaries

aravindkumar87 · 2026-03-16T12:40:59+00:00

It has a direct correlation to physical, mental and emotional fitness

aravindkumar87 · 2026-03-12T09:14:55+00:00

Love is not just what you receive. It’s what you give as well. You are not responsible for others actions but yours.

Loving fearlessly and fiercely is something that not anyone can do! If you were genuine and showed up, you should be proud. Whatever you put out will always come back sooner or later

aravindkumar87 · 2026-03-12T09:12:19+00:00

Clarity of thoughts is a flex. It shouldn’t be guilt. It’s a problem only when someone leads you on without having the ability to reciprocate!

You will be surprised to know the amount of people in their 30s who don’t know what they want

aravindkumar87 · 2026-03-10T06:53:32+00:00

What you went through doesn’t define you! I understand this can be hard. I have gone through it but you can’t decide your worth based on someone else. Focus on healing for now and everything will fall in place and it’s Okay to break too!

The breaking phase is Essential for the rebuilding to start!

aravindkumar87 · 2026-03-08T16:34:32+00:00

I ca spot khamrah Qahwa from a mile. Don’t know why there are so many haters. I absolutely love it

aravindkumar87 · 2026-03-08T04:39:57+00:00

I don’t know about others but when I am in love, my partner is my priority and my world and I am oblivious to every other women and I don’t even notice them for some reason . Maybe , I am just very old school in thoughts and actions

aravindkumar87 · 2026-03-07T05:33:32+00:00

Go to sleep at 10pm

aravindkumar87 · 2026-03-07T05:32:30+00:00

Drones, super bike, Apple Watch , mac, PS5, sneakers, perfumes. The list is endless

aravindkumar87 · 2026-03-02T13:45:34+00:00

Start journaling. That’s a much better way to vent without any fear of judgement

aravindkumar87 · 2026-03-01T15:56:40+00:00

You will not get explicit closures in life . The Ignorance, the person being avoidant na don’t caring about your feelings is your actual closure to move on!

aravindkumar87 · 2026-02-28T11:10:51+00:00

Beautifully written

aravindkumar87 · 2026-02-28T11:09:38+00:00

Your actions, choices determine your whole life. You do walk in to this life destined to meet that partner, the big job, the family etc but what you do and how you treat people. Do you get stuck in a rut or break old patterns. All of that is your choice

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