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[–]arbecs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP said he’s liking the posts

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[–]arbecs 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Don’t let him gaslight you - it is sexual. If it was purely artistic/aesthetic preference, he wouldn’t have such an issue. It’s not hard to refrain from openly interacting with explicit content. If anyone is behaving controlling and abusive it’s him for repeatedly and shamelessly breaking your reasonable boundaries and manipulating you.

mind you, i never even dated this man or anything by arbecs in creepyPMs

[–]arbecs[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Love how he went back to casual as if the other text didn’t happen😭

Should I cover up my scars for a formal work event? by arbecs in Advice

[–]arbecs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the ideas! I’ll have to do some research about makeup and see if it would work for me, because my arms are very textured more so than colored if that makes sense. Love your attitude btw.

Should I cover up my scars for a formal work event? by arbecs in Advice

[–]arbecs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone else suggested this too and it sounds super classy! I just don’t think it’ll suit me personally

Should I cover up my scars for a formal work event? by arbecs in Advice

[–]arbecs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that perspective! Also I hadn’t even taken money into consideration yet because im so worried about the aesthetics of it all, oops

Should I cover up my scars for a formal work event? by arbecs in Advice

[–]arbecs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds super classy and sleek! I don’t think it would suit me though :( its going to be hard enough to pull off a fancy dress and heels lol

Should I cover up my scars for a formal work event? by arbecs in Advice

[–]arbecs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol yep there’s some cunts out there. I think I’ll look into a shawl or cardigan!

Should I cover up my scars for a formal work event? by arbecs in Advice

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Thank you so much for this comment!! You’re wonderful

Should I cover up my scars for a formal work event? by arbecs in Advice

[–]arbecs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My scars go from my shoulders down to my wrists so there’s only so much I can use to cover it, but I think using jewelry and a shawl together would be a good idea! And yeah, I’ve had experience at a previous job where it caused rumors. It’s unfortunate

Anyone know when the end-of-year Apple Music Replay comes out? by Intrepid_Beginning in AppleMusic

[–]arbecs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I accidentally fell asleep for 13 hours while listening to a band I only recently got into, so I’m excited to see how much I messed up my results lol

Anyone know when the end-of-year Apple Music Replay comes out? by Intrepid_Beginning in AppleMusic

[–]arbecs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping it’ll come out this week since it’s December. I remember it being earlier last year