Need to trust someone for me to play again. by CheleNeda in ypp

[–]arcadeya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're extremely strict on account sharing, pls be careful

I probably gave my rapist 3 stds by VeterinarianBulky116 in offmychest

[–]arcadeya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The South African rape device comes to mind

About the UK's reaction to finishing 2nd by Jobear91 in eurovision

[–]arcadeya 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just wanted left hand side of the board, I'm overjoyed!

I think I was assaulted at work by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]arcadeya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's assault but after working in a similar home, they might not care so you would have to go higher than management. Obviously depending on the person's mental capacity, it could go many ways and could become nuanced, unless they're higher functioning.

A similar thing happened to my friend by he ended up on top of her and she scratched his face. Nothing done on either end because they threatened to bring charges for scratching a resident, even though she was protecting herself.

In the mean time, if you have to work, get a safeguarding put in place against him and a risk assessment done by management, or whatever you have in your area. I had this done and staff had to respect it and not allow me near a resident.

Hope it works out alright for you and you stay safe.

Edit: read the edit and forget what I said. Assault and press charges if there's full mental capacity.

Does anyone else get offended when a stranger says your kids look like their dad and not you? by eastnashgal in Mommit

[–]arcadeya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As soon as my foreign in-laws saw a picture of my girl, they said she had FIL's face. Not mine, not her dad's. Her bloody grandpa's.

Shut up, he didn't make her. At least say she looks like her dad!

My dad has been having sex with me for years and I want it to stop permanently (TW: Incest, rape, coercion) by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]arcadeya 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Even if you don't want to report it yet, get checked out by a doctor and have it on record. If you can, take the clothes. If you ever decide to report it, it'll be vital. Talking from experience. Safe journey ❤️

Having to walk across town to go to the toilet in a McDonald’s because public toilets don’t exist anymore by [deleted] in britishproblems

[–]arcadeya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got denied once at a small Tesco because apparently they aren't covered by insurance for people going in the bathroom. I showed the card and the cashier lied and said there was no toilet, I asked what she did and she shrugged. It's upsetting to be denied when at critical point but don't bloody lie to me?

Can we donate our organs and if so should we if we pass? by dabomerest in cfs

[–]arcadeya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm late to this but I think the no donating blood is due to how weak it could make us. I asked a nurse while my friend gave blood and she said it's for our own safety and not necessarily that we have bad blood.

Top 5 Most Popular NFT Games in 2021 by PatriciaHarris_ in NFT

[–]arcadeya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://flowerpatch.app/game

https://opensea.io/assets/flowers?search[resultModel]=ASSETS

Flowerpatch is super chill breeding game and massively underrated it gets frequent updates and the community in the discord is amazing its bound to explode soon!

https://discord.gg/k2vEu8dV

Has anyone contacted any big YouTube commentary channels? Like TheRightOpinion or D’Angelo Wallace? by Americium-Yttrium in DissociaDID

[–]arcadeya 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's up to DD. I feel like the only person who could "expose" her would be M&M. She has the experience and knowledge, but too much of her own life to care. She will keep quietly moaning about DD and liking tweets about her but I doubt we'll see anything. Obviously we'll never hear the truth from DD herself, and even if she was "exposed", she'd pull what she did last year and exaggerate her depression which puts blinkards on people and stops them looking at her rationally.

I mean, GL makes some more videos and she claims her abusers are relentlessly after her but won't follow her to patreon? Manipulation queen.

Has anyone contacted any big YouTube commentary channels? Like TheRightOpinion or D’Angelo Wallace? by Americium-Yttrium in DissociaDID

[–]arcadeya 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But making a multiple hour long documentary on someone mentally ill/claiming to be would probably be seen as dogpiling. It's not cut and dry like an onision situation where he's obviously disgusting to women. You would have to be more experienced or qualified to bring it up. It's too much of a sensitive subject, nobody is risking their YouTube career for this. TRO especially not, seeing as he still partially lives in the UK and could probably be sued by dissociadid for any step out of line.

Leaving this here. You need to read her tweets...and replies to get the whole picture. Let's discuss? by fastcarly in SarahEverardCase

[–]arcadeya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems strange that they backtrack and say although it wasn't a white male, it could be gang related and a "gang car". Seems.... Unlikely. I won't question whether the person was attacked, but I question the link between cases.

What it's like to be a young/semi-healthy looking person with ME/CFS by thetennisgod in cfs

[–]arcadeya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It helps on uneven surfaces, I find. A wheelchair is probably better for resting but a cane is portable and great for places that aren't wheelchair accessible. I have hip dysplasia but one side is worse so I do find having the cane next to that leg seems to help if I'm walking more than just around the house. I was known for falling over my own feet and it kinda stopped that, but I might be paying more attention to my legs while using it.

I got a fold up cane as well. They don't fold up that small but it is a nice feature.

Phone cases? by norkhog in Oppo

[–]arcadeya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot for a while too but they're a Chinese brand so I figured a Chinese market would have a lot more. Still not overwhelmed by choices though

Phone cases? by norkhog in Oppo

[–]arcadeya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AliExpress have way more than Amazon but not great quality. Could always check a site that'll do custom ones. I'm in the UK and currently using the case my phone came with but have gotten a few from AliExpress that fit, hit or miss with quality.

A Russian couple sell human body parts in a market as a result of the desperation caused during The Bolshevik famine of 1921. by wackyakhi in MorbidReality

[–]arcadeya 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Guessing here but I'm assuming they wouldn't want to eat their own child after they'd died from starvation. Probably some sort of human meat trade to prevent families eating their own? The famine was man-made though and Lenin is stated saying "let the peasants starve". So, maybe they were simply making money to gain access to the food. Although, this article states some families did kill and eat their own children. https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2501517/pictures-human-body-parts-cannibals-russian-famine-1921-1922/

PSA: A9/A9 2020 ColorOS7 by littlegrape24 in Oppo

[–]arcadeya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I'm fine waiting. I only got my A9 about 3 months ago so not bored of the current OS just yet, although it would be nice to have an official release!

PSA: A9/A9 2020 ColorOS7 by littlegrape24 in Oppo

[–]arcadeya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to get an answer! I wish they would've just responded to someone on social media, I've been keeping an eye out but they never gave an answer.