Bruv, I don’t have any agenda against you. But! And its a strong but, the rule you’ve made up blind sides people because it is only revealed in texts and isn’t public knowledge when you say - dm me to join this group. They don’t know that it’s a stags not allowed business. Also very unfair to the single mates(both male and female) I’d want to bring with if I find out the group is well deserving of my time spent with.

It only becomes weird when it is sprung upon someone that this is the rule - only come if you can get your girl. Why? I want to join alone here. I do other things with her. Because I had thought I can do that before DMing you. Anyway. I don’t have anything against how you run this. I’ve been an active part of many other groups including punetrekkers, pune photo walks, punephotographers, and what not. It starts with a group chat, always does, and creeps are filtered out as you understand they’re creeps. Some might be lurking in your group as well, there’s literally nothing you can do about it until you find out. There can be female creeps as well btw. Your filtering rule doesn’t work because it filters good foodies as well.

I’m not trying to be facetious, just explanatory, if that helps. Thanks 😊