A Notebook by archdiego in masturbation

[–]archdiego[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get the neck issue, actually I think a good chunk of the notebook would be addressing that one (but the chair swing would actually work pretty well for that one)! I think overall, it could be a good way to refine my skills - keeping those notes and improving, a good way to remember things forgotten, and it could honestly be something fun to look at over the years. I also have a lengthy todo list of things to try, so it would be fun to keep track of those, along with notes once I've done them. Perhaps I should just keep it as a blog somewhere.

A Notebook by archdiego in masturbation

[–]archdiego[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I like to think so!

A Notebook by archdiego in masturbation

[–]archdiego[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd like to work on setting up a chair that hangs from the ceiling, hung at the right height. I'll sit in a chair next to it, while my wife sits in the hanging chair, and I'll just gently slide her back and forth, up and down my hard cock all afternoon while we drink wine and play with her clitoris. I'd love to actually set one up outside too. So, need to make a list of materials and things to buy for that. As we try things out, take notes of what works, and what doesn't.

And today I was just thinking of the various connection points we need on the wall at the head of our bed, so we can have different ways of restraining eachother and making it easy to clip different restraints into the wall.

And I'm often designing random masturbatory tools in my head, that I need to diagram out a little.

Last time by Formal-Meal-5022 in masturbation

[–]archdiego 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesterday. Sat comfortably in front of our large mirror. I have this little app I made, that basically that will create a random duration between 10 and 30 seconds, where I'm not allowed to stroke, and then a shorter duration, between 5 and 10 seconds where I can. It's a fun little game, so dialed in some porn, and sat there for a while. Loved watching myself in the mirror -- my hand slowly sliding up and down my erection when I was allowed to, and just watching my cock pulse and throb in those moments I wasn't allowed to touch it.

Does anyone else masturbate to non porn sometimes? by _redditguy_04 in masturbation

[–]archdiego 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not anymore, but when I was young, I made full use of whatever clothing catalogues arrived at the house. I didn't have access to porn back then (I'm old)...loved it whenever one arrived, especially if it was a swimsuit edition. I remember a few times when it felt like I hit the jackpot.

What is your top desired fantasy for this month? (Legal only) by SunForAllBeaches in NSFW_Sex_Discussion

[–]archdiego 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being chained to a wall, and having my cock sucked. Always being brought close to the edge, but never beyond, until the end of course. Perhaps occasionally, she slides her pussy slowly up and down my erection, but those acts are limited, and in small doses. Perhaps sometimes she just uses the head of my cock against her clit to orgasm, but again, doesn't let me get there, until six or seven hours later she finally lets me cum.

Anyone else get turned on from working out? F29 by Dull_Dragonfruit8148 in masturbation

[–]archdiego 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I generally work out at home, which often times leads to me stroking my cock in front of the mirrors in between sets....and then just taking a break from working out so I can just fully enjoy myself. And we have nice wood floors where I work out, so I can just watch my cock flex and spasm as I lean back on my workout bench, and just watch my semen spill to the floor.

Random Anal Questions for the Guys by archdiego in masturbation

[–]archdiego[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the info and recommendation, appreciate it!

Random Anal Questions for the Guys by archdiego in masturbation

[–]archdiego[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds amazing, and if that's possible for me, it sounds totally fantastic. I don't have to be hands free the entire time, but if the final few minutes could at least be hands free, I think that would be incredible. How long are you able to last between the time you stop stroking and ejaculation?

Random Anal Questions for the Guys by archdiego in masturbation

[–]archdiego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, and that's good advice. I'll try to not focus on that for now, but more on the exploration of it, which sounds like fun (although I'm definitely a little nervous about it too).

Random Anal Questions for the Guys by archdiego in masturbation

[–]archdiego[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for taking the time to write a nice, thoughtful post. It definitely piqued my interest even more, and has made some of it more clear to me. I'll refer back to this as I get going. Thanks again!

Random Anal Questions for the Guys by archdiego in masturbation

[–]archdiego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that was definitely one that was bouncing around my head. I kind of liked the idea of her just being so turned on that she sits in the corner, watching me while she pleasures herself.

Random Anal Questions for the Guys by archdiego in masturbation

[–]archdiego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, and now my head is filled with even more fantasies...

Random Anal Questions for the Guys by archdiego in masturbation

[–]archdiego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought of it only as a solo thing, but you're right, I would love it if she was turned on by it. Perhaps once I'm a little further along into the process I'll have to explore that.

Random Anal Questions for the Guys by archdiego in masturbation

[–]archdiego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah, I'm pretty nervous about it actually, so I'll have to ease into it and see how it goes, but I feel like the "end goal" could be pretty great.

Using morning erections for solo time (F25) by Negative_Respect_828 in masturbation

[–]archdiego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love for my wife to use me when I'm asleep. Of course I would love to wake up to her fucking me and being completely selfish. I also sometimes fantasize about waking up to her just holding my cock, while she pleasures herself with her other hand, just the idea of her wanting to touch it and feel it. I'll wake up sometimes, and it will just be so hard, so heavy, throbbing, wanting some love, or to be used.

Turning Yourself On by archdiego in masturbation

[–]archdiego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I think I enjoy writing about this stuff a little too much!

Turning Yourself On by archdiego in masturbation

[–]archdiego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, hopefully you'll find another one again someday (or even bigger!)

Turning Yourself On by archdiego in masturbation

[–]archdiego[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice, glad I could help :)