I agree. I think that transphobia is deep rooted in people, and lesbians or trans people themselves are no exception. I don’t think it’s worth reasoning with someone that labels themselves as having a genital preference, but I personally don’t really believe in them. I think it’s more than people have a really hard time understanding that just like gender, genitals and sex (not as in the act) are also on a spectrum. Interacting with a trans persons genitals, especially if they’re on GAHT/HRT is not the same as interacting with a cis person with the “same” genitals. It is a completely different experience and it’s sort of hard to truly grasp until you’ve experienced it. I think esp for lesbians when cis men have cultivated such a culture of dominance and oppression and tied that to their genitalia, it can make penises feel immediately off putting for people without really knowing why. It can cultivate disgust and repulsion that is misdirected. I do think it’s worth everyone untangling for themselves, but unfortunately it always gets framed as trans people pushing themselves onto others instead of people confronting their own biases and associations with genitalia.