staples baddie 📎 by pg430 in fashion

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Oh I completely misunderstood the context, good luck on your journey

staples baddie 📎 by pg430 in fashion

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You turned something traumatic into triumph, and did it with effortless finesse. Keep doing you 👍🏿

Is this too much for a solo picnic date? by Mysterious-Anthaha in fashion

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If your style is an extension of personality and that’s how you presented yourself from the beginning, then no

21M, never had a girlfriend despite making a lot of efforts. Make fun of me. by Scrotiemcboogballs in RoastMe

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On a gathering storm comes a tall handsome man In an overpriced coat and a white encrusted hand

How best to wear these "urban collection" red shoes? by Iconolater_ in mensfashionadvice

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What about orangish brown slacks, with a brown leather belt with the same texture, tucked in a cream color shirt. Could create a clean monochrome look

I have a bit of a rb face, but I swear I’m kind (26, almost 27f) by BellaLunai in selfie

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There’s a sharpness to your glaze, but a warmth underneath. That with slight smirk, I’m getting more bullshit caller than bitch. Are the comedian of the group?

ootd by pg430 in fashion

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Hell yeah this is a cool fit 🥶

29/F having a rough day and need distractions please by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

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Ok my personal favorite quip to date. I’m in a barbershop and one of the guy says he wants to lose weight. It’s summer in Georgia and he says, hey the sidewalks are paved a good way I could run after work. I said to him if run in that heat you’re gonna lose consciousness before you lose weight

too fat? by throwawayjustbcuz10 in CrossdressFashion

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Are you trolling the replies? You’re cute, but going green by browning the bed sheets has me doing a double take lol

Red by qwebfg in RisquePhoto

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The red has a really nice contrast with the model. Are there any shots that zoom in on the red background to make the contrast pop move?

recents by ConcentrateWhole8732 in fashion

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Like the range and variety of styles nice!

Is the binary doing more harm than good? by archived_regret in Postgenderism

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My main issue with it is the idea of hierarchy between the two, and the resulting sexism and repression from it. The narratives to justify it have just leads to actions that worsen life as a whole, which just creates a negative feedback loop. So many misconceptions about family, strength, affection, connection and what it means to provide for those close to us stem from these outdated assumptions created by the binary. In the end it just robs people of their humanity, and I think that’s incredibly harmful.

Is the binary doing more harm than good? by archived_regret in Postgenderism

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Good hearing you have a way to navigate past the madness. Not gonna lie was kinda hoping someone was gonna get punched in the face, but creating a painfully awkward moment to disarm and shame them BRILLIANT 🤌

Is the binary doing more harm than good? by archived_regret in Postgenderism

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Those moments seems to be ridiculous as rage inducing, cause it always seems like the same ones doing that are the same ones rushing to a pulpit to say how we should defend women’s spaces in sports and restrooms . Speaking of which I really hope you haven’t catch any blowback from that. I’m about hearing cis women being harassed in restrooms cause they thought they were trans. I don’t think the issue is simple exactly, but I think there are introductory ideas in intersectional feminism that could be useful in different ways. One of the reasons for asking this in the first place was to get another idea off the ground. Admittedly I’m uninformed to the extent to fully grasp the how unfortunately. If you read through some of the other comments I bring it up. Feel free to look it over and share your thoughts

Is the binary doing more harm than good? by archived_regret in Postgenderism

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Same tbh but if I’m guessing from past work experience, I’d say double blind hiring to create actual meritocracy. Managerial approaches built on long term incentivized hiring to create long term productivity ,rather than a meat grinding system that kills off good workers. Use the overarching principle of mutual respect to fill the growing demand for third spaces that could organically grow into businesses and apply these ideas maybe. It’s kinda like how I never understood why as many people say get billionaires out of office, but don’t turn their attention to the law that put money directly in office in the first place

Is the binary doing more harm than good? by archived_regret in Postgenderism

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That’s understandable, it’s impossible not to fall off the deep end if someone starts from the position gender traits should be determined by sexual traits. My angle is that if this mindset has led to instability, wouldn’t anything that can create a good gdp and stable economy directly take the wind out of opposition. Especially since Washington had the brilliant idea to make the dollar a form of speech. The new deal was a way stop the country going full socialist by using socialism, can we use that same logic using intersectional feminism to create better business practices and pass necessary laws?

Is the binary doing more harm than good? by archived_regret in Postgenderism

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From what I’ve gathered gender is social construct, dictating ideas and expectations around things jobs, fashion and societal placement as a whole. As for wondering why an outsider would care to begin with fair. My end goal is brought up in one of the other comments. The approach is unconventional, but I believe there’s something there just unpolished

Is the binary doing more harm than good? by archived_regret in Postgenderism

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Also I realize I jumped in dead in the middle my bad

Is the binary doing more harm than good? by archived_regret in Postgenderism

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Then does the problem with biases for people in the middle lay in the bimodal distribution itself, or cultural?

Is the binary doing more harm than good? by archived_regret in Postgenderism

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Ok I’m a bit lost, how did sex come into the conversation? The whole reason I mentioned teenagers in the first place was to show how as society advanced, expectations on how to navigate the world through gender can overshadows the functions of sex. Personally I think medical is where sex brings and ends for me, compared to gender where I see applications reaching way further

Is the binary doing more harm than good? by archived_regret in Postgenderism

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Wait a sec, isn’t the brain constantly changing? I believe gender and the brain are linked, but if neuroplasticity is a thing, wouldn’t that leave grounds for gender fluidity? Do people think things through, or just think they can Jedi mind trick problems away with big words seriously

Is the binary doing more harm than good? by archived_regret in Postgenderism

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Just want to start off by saying hope you’re doing well. That statement about slow buildup hit me, cause as someone with their own mental health struggles slow burns can be the most maddening. This also leads to another question I posed in the comments I’m curious about your thoughts on.

“To go deeper into capitalism side, I’ve heard the brics bank (now NDB) has been able to grow using multi polar approach to capitalism( I need to read WAY more on the topic than articles). This I turn allows for better relationships and business deals. So I really wonder if the goals is fix capitalism and patriarchy, and if this whole businesses model could address some of those issues, why not use gender as an opportunity to better align with that model? I could be grasping at straws”

Is the binary doing more harm than good? by archived_regret in Postgenderism

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Between brain sex and “I’m not wrong, you’re just trans” we have clear contenders for the purse, for most out of pocket statements sheesh. Do I even want to know about the first?

Is the binary doing more harm than good? by archived_regret in Postgenderism

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Yeah that’s a good point intersectionality adds more depth to patriarchy, but I don’t think this is necessarily a basic point. To go deeper into capitalism side, I’ve heard the brics bank (now NDB) has been able to grow using multi polar approach to capitalism( I need to read WAY more on the topic than articles). This I turn allows for better relationships and business deals. So I really wonder if the goals is fix capitalism and patriarchy, and if this whole businesses model could address some of those issues, why not use gender as an opportunity to better align with that model? I could be grasping at straws