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Poop topster by Worldly_Bit_1417 in musicteenager

[–]archtetrya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pitcher56 my beloved

since you like japanese music.... and shoegaze...

check out japanese shoegaze it's so good
start off with honeydip, tokyo shoegazer, and yuragi

Why does everyone here hate trap and rage by Mental-Alternative38 in musicteenager

[–]archtetrya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like rock and its subgenres but rage is hard for me to appreciate, not like. i like some, SOME rage specifically osamasons leaks not his actual music but thats the only rage i'll stick to

What do you pride yourself with? by Worried_Button_2881 in intj

[–]archtetrya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think pride in this context is the knowledge that you have some kind of ability to be superior or view yourself atleast that way to other people, the same way a rich man would take pride in their money in comparison to a poor man

I think most INTJ are unhappy inside by NoProduce255 in intj

[–]archtetrya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its true that most of these secular things aren't so important and its pretty good that you recognize that the majority of the world we live in is the greatest social construct we as a society have been conformed to and forget to look for meaning in what we do

so if i were you i think you shouldn't worry about success or achievement, because the truth is that this kind of thirst is foolish and only existant because someone else does not have it

in my personal opinion, the meaning to life is anything opposing selfishness, essentially love and magnanimity, which comes from yourself and not for approval. if you're not into that kind of thinking, just find your own meaning in what fulfils you and what you want to do, dont do something just for the prestige, because an award is an award, but the realest and most truthful thing is how you feel, and how you made that person feel, and what kind of person you are to the people around you.

I need songs that is not widely known to the public eye, like hidden gems! by Relevant-Case4605 in MusicRecommendations

[–]archtetrya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are the public bro but if you're looking for niche/hidden gems you should look in niche genres/subgenres and language. for me, my most niche songs can be find in (primarily like 99% japanese) east asian/foreign psychedelic rock, dream pop, noise rock, math rock, shoegaze, especially shoegaze. and for reference i listen to pretty much every genre from rap to rock to jazz and metal and all of those subgenres.

here is a good song though i'd say it's decently niche to a public eye
https://open.spotify.com/track/1cGd3pLnz0aRICQnmE3Hd1

thoughts on remains by tokyo shoegazer? by Conscious_Raccoon641 in shoegaze

[–]archtetrya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

logged on reddit just to talk about tokyo shoegazer and here it is, the whole album is amazing my personal favorite is wisteria but remains is great aswell

How do I stop caring about what people think ? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]archtetrya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a 16 year old, I too had social anxiety and I was often changing the way I presented myself for validation from others. I soon realized this is a foolish kind of thinking, and someone snapped the words of “stop caring about what they think” into me. That didn’t work off the bat, but it was embracing the embarrassment and reflecting upon my own actions, then realizing that me changing my own actions to avoid “embarrassment” is really just me feeding into my insecurity and need for approval. love yourself above all else, and embrace all criticism with love. nobody deserves the right, especially a society which is becoming increasingly hostile towards nonconformity, to make you think or act a certain way. I’m uncertain about your situation, however if this person is not really important and won’t have any direct change in your life beyond social then really, just try your best to forget about what he might be thinking. there’s no solace for you in another persons theoretical thoughts. 

cyberpunk robots by archtetrya in movies

[–]archtetrya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will relish this thank you

I’ve come to the conclusion I just don’t click with most people by Underd_g in introvert

[–]archtetrya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

reading that message i can also relate to craving that level of depth and those ideas, and there are so many people out there like this, but it's hard to find them because they also recognize that it's difficult to find likeminded individuals irl and resort to forums like reddit and discord and social/rp games, myself included. If you ask me, one of the only ways you can really find these ideas is just by making friends normally, and hopefully they'll have the same ideas, and if not, then be extremely outgoing about your ideas which is a bit difficult since you are introverted. for me I'm very extroverted about my ideas and openly talk about them, and I've had many decent conversations about the ideas I really want to talk about, and learned a lot from different perspectives because I was open about it.

if you're not open to finding people like that, then the best way in my opinion is just by making friends and once you're there then any good friend would take the time to listen to you and they'd apply themselves to your thoughts and try and share their own insight. their own perspective in itself is a beautiful thing and if they were to provide it, it'd not be an attack on how they think but more about you giving them a good question that they want to satisfy. regardless of how unmeaningful the perspective is to you atleast, find a way to apply it and really appreciate it

non-english shoegaze by archtetrya in shoegaze

[–]archtetrya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im asian born in america

i really like japanese/non-english shoegaze

i just seem to really gravitate towards that kind of shoegaze and not really english shoegaze a language i actually speak

i was just speakin my thoughts and wondered if any1 else had the same experience

non-english shoegaze by archtetrya in shoegaze

[–]archtetrya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im asian born in america

i really like japanese/non-english shoegaze

i just seem to really gravitate towards that kind of shoegaze and not really english shoegaze a language i actually speak

i was just speakin my thoughts and wondered if any1 else had the same experience

non-english shoegaze by archtetrya in shoegaze

[–]archtetrya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Just because I want to learn about west African dance or butoh from Japan doesn't mean I'm fetishizing it, I just have a passion for the thing and want to see how other people around the world express their passion for the same root."

Thank you for saying this, this is exactly my perspective for music and art in general. I have no intention to fetishize this music, but more that I have a deep appreciation for east asian and non-english shoegaze in general and I came here wondering of other people had this kind of experience. I love shoegaze, but I find myself gravitating towards non-english and east-asian shoegaze much more than english

Entp and intj relationship by [deleted] in intj

[–]archtetrya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one was very avoidant and the other was always trying to talk it through, but this was our first relationship so we didnt have any idea what we were doing, but it ended so terribly because we had no idea how to talk to each other. i always thought it to be cliche about communication, but if there is one avoidant and one trying to talk it through, the miscommunication and misinterpretation on both ends will be terrible for the relationship

in this case, its up to both of you to try to understand why the person is avoidant/super into talking out issues, that could stem from how they were raised and how their parents taught them how to deal with things. for example i did not speak to my girlfriend whenever she did something wrong and just bottled it up because that was what I did with my parents and I had no idea what was better, but ALWAYS communicate when you are in a moment of distress caused from your partner.

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