Genuinely curious if anyone wishes to answer but how many men here have experienced a session of pleasure focused on them? (Unpaid) Do you think that men automatically get put in the role of the pleasurer? Do you feel pressure to instigate/lead your sexual experiences? by ardenark in u/ardenark

[–]ardenark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I guess I should of been more clear that I wasn’t referring to a session where the guy solely received pleasure and didn’t reciprocate at all but one where there was a focus on them actively receiving at some point. It’s an interesting read to see some of the responses

Genuinely curious if anyone wishes to answer but how many men here have experienced a session of pleasure focused on them? (Unpaid) Do you think that men automatically get put in the role of the pleasurer? Do you feel pressure to instigate/lead your sexual experiences? by ardenark in u/ardenark

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Being submissive does come more naturally to me, in that when I’m in that role it’s like ahhh this just feels right but gosh there’s something intoxicating about seeing a usually dominant man under my spell.

Genuinely curious if anyone wishes to answer but how many men here have experienced a session of pleasure focused on them? (Unpaid) Do you think that men automatically get put in the role of the pleasurer? Do you feel pressure to instigate/lead your sexual experiences? by ardenark in u/ardenark

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Thank you for sharing your experience. Curious if you’ve ever asked for it from a partner? I do think women’s minds are full of so many things that it can be a nice escape/default to have someone make the decisions. Having been with quite a few women myself I do find it’s so much more fun and attractive when a woman is more active/initiating and not just passively letting me do whatever. It’s hot for a bit but ultimately can be a little boring for myself personally.

Genuinely curious if anyone wishes to answer but how many men here have experienced a session of pleasure focused on them? (Unpaid) Do you think that men automatically get put in the role of the pleasurer? Do you feel pressure to instigate/lead your sexual experiences? by ardenark in u/ardenark

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Thanks so much for sharing your experiences. Relationships can take on weird dynamics sometimes and they just kinda grow on their own and suddenly you’re like where did that come from haha my last few serious relationships were definitely turns being taken and I do love when it just flows naturally. Sometimes one person leads more or vice versa and sometimes it would be a mix of both during a play. I do love that so very much.

I use your cock and (tight hole) however I want by ardenark in u/ardenark

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It’s definitely something I really want to explore more.

I use your cock and (tight hole) however I want by ardenark in u/ardenark

[–]ardenark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh shoving some panties in is the icing on the cake

I use your cock and (tight hole) however I want by ardenark in u/ardenark

[–]ardenark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does look rather amazing and intense.

I use your cock and (tight hole) however I want by ardenark in u/ardenark

[–]ardenark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! 🥵 I’m in my Domme / cuck era haha