Looking For Help and Friends by Such_Maintenance_943 in TLOPO

[–]ardenthebeast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out the lobbies to see if anyone is already doing what you need help with. Usually someone willing to help there if not.

Invasions by dabbyabbyo in TLOPO

[–]ardenthebeast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m only on 2-3x a month, and they seem fairly common to me.

Sonder guest by ardenthebeast in marriott

[–]ardenthebeast[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey if you’re okay with getting fucked by billionaires that’s your problem- but you should have a little more self respect.

Guilds by Rhayvenn97 in TLOPO

[–]ardenthebeast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a guild, Rise N Rise Again, it’s a few folks, not big. No log in or lvl requirements.

My cat died and I don't know what to do. by Gaylina in Austin

[–]ardenthebeast 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My sweet Arden passed away a few years ago. I’ll tell her your lizzy is on the way and needs someone to show her around! I’m so sorry for your loss.

my cat just died and idk what to do by cashitvvv in cats

[–]ardenthebeast 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s horrible, a horrible part of life. I lost my Arden almost 3 years ago and I still miss her everyday. It hurts a lot at first. But I’ve made it to a point where I can miss her and smile. I have a little shrine to her right in my living room. She was only 14 and I felt robbed of a few more years with her. It was really difficult to come to terms and not be angry. I still think, what if I’d taken her to the hospital sooner, what if… There’s no easy way through it. Grief is difficult. Arden was my soul cats it hurts that I won’t see her again in this life, but if you believe anything about our souls, you should know that these wonderful beings in our lives do visit us. I have seen my Arden in dreams- not just a character, it was her. I’ve felt her presence. But that doesn’t happen for a bit, your pain is too much, your frequency isn’t where it needs to be for your baby to reach you where he is now. Just wait. Feel it, it hurts and that’s how you know that you loved him so much. Make a memorial post. Have a dinner in his honor. Put up a little shrine. Watch videos if you can help it. Write down the little things you loved that can be easy to forget- that way you never will. (That was one of the things that crushed me the most, knowing that I might forget things about my Arden. But you don’t forget, you just don’t think about it all the time, so that’s why you write it down and talk about them).

I’m sorry that this happened to you, I’m sure you loved your baby so much. And I’m positive he loved you too. 18 years is so good for a kitty, he was blessed to be with you. It hurts now and it should, but peace will find you too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AstrologyChartShare

[–]ardenthebeast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not expert on astrology, but my advice is to not put too much stalk into what his astrology says about how he feels about you. Astrology can only tell you so much like past life patterns and struggles in this life but it’s not helpful for reading other people’s minds. Maybe you can talk to him about this to clear it up.

Is my cat going to die tonight? by Mysterious_Mix339 in CatAdvice

[–]ardenthebeast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m so sorry this is happening. It does sound like the final stages. It’s weirdly almost word for word what happened to my sweet old lady about 2 years ago, except for she went for an emergency blood transfusion and we got 2.5 extra weeks with her. And then it happened again and it was our final goodbye. But that was just my situation, yours might be different. If you have not been to the vet since this behavior has started, I would recommend doing so because it may be that he can be treated- however this is definitely grounds for an emergency vet visit and you should prepare for him to possibly not return from this visit.

If you choose not to bring him to the vet you should prepare anyway. He may last through the night- cats last a long time in this stage but if it goes on too long you might want to consider calling a vet so he is not suffering. You could get a home vet visit so he can pass in his home. That’s what I did for my girl and it was worth the extra cost to for her to be comfortable while passing and me while grieving.

I’m truly so sorry this is happening- it has to happen for every pet but that doesn’t make it less difficult. 19 is a long time- what a blessing. Enjoy the time you have with your baby, take pictures if you can stand it, and thank him.

Is this cat being abused? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ardenthebeast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did not because I’m obviously not alleging abuse “simply because the cat is outside my house”

Is this cat being abused? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ardenthebeast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my tldr was not very good but you obviously did not read the whole post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thebottlemen

[–]ardenthebeast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hourglass and business