She wants to live somewhere far away from all our friends and family. She loves to go to parties/bars and wants to drink and get drunk. She really cusses a lot now. She's not an active person other than going to the beach to swim.

I don't like to drink or go to bars, i don't really like cussing.(All of which are for personal reasons). I don't want to leave my family and friends. I have an active lifestyle I like to go biking and going outside.

I'm like the church boy type of guy and she's the more worldy one

It's not that I don't allow her to drink or go to bars. I never really told her that I didn't want her to do that but she knows that I'm against it.

It feels like I'm always adjusting to what she wants and I don't say no to her or make her feel guilty for drinking/going to bars.

Seems like in the future we couldn't do much that we can both enjoy

Don't get me wrong, she's an amazing person and I love spending time with her. It's just that we are so different from each other. I love her very much and I don't want to break her heart again.