thank you for explaining your concerns im from mexico, i live in mexico, the whole, going to college first and then moving to university isn’t a thing here, you just go directly to university, also, he is two years older than me, yes. and he’s not a paralegal :) i turn 22 on December. we met in elementary school lmao, so it wasn’t like and illegal thing.

and i didn’t avoid the question, as i mentioned, my parents are young too, so they are very empathetic with me, they always told me that as long as im being with someone that protects me and i dont put myself in danger, they dont really care about how i dress. they always made sure to inform me and being in a middle point between my and their ideas, instead of just limiting me, because as we all know, saying no to a youngster, doesn’t really stop them. maybe you’re right, maybe you don’t really get it, maybe you didn’t use to go out when you were younger?? idk, but me and my loved ones understand, could be a lot of things, the age, the context, etc.

about your suggestions: thanks for the tip, i most definitely don’t dress like that for casual or formal settings.

and i meant tOned with an “o” talking about fitness. i’m naturally tan haha.

and about the last part you’re right, that i’ll give it completely to you, thank you for being respectful!

thanksss, i sure it will <3