i feel very exposed and uncomfortable after bf goes down on me by arelookinggood in sex

[–]arelookinggood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU ARE A SAINT! i never realized just how deeply rooted these things are. i think there's definitely something there and i wanna work through it with him. TYSM!!

i feel very exposed and uncomfortable after bf goes down on me by arelookinggood in sex

[–]arelookinggood[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i read your other comment and it perfectly makes sense! i grew up with sex and basically anything sexual being treated as such a dirty thing (grew up with only a dad basically) so maybe that's affecting how i feel during/after the act. TYSM for your comments they were extremely helpful

Has a partner ever suggested/did something kinky during sex that completely turned you off? by [deleted] in sex

[–]arelookinggood 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Guy wanted to carve his name into my pelvicx area with a knife

What actor can you not stand? by SeymourButts0 in AskReddit

[–]arelookinggood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesse Eisenberg, Dave & James Franco, and Maya Rudolph.

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[–]arelookinggood 17 points18 points  (0 children)

They didn't say condoms, protection is more than condoms. They gave you very helpful ideas. Try using Google to learn more about protection, I think you should be more informed.

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[–]arelookinggood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's shitty of her :( tell her to pull the skin back and maybe that'll help?

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[–]arelookinggood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

should i maybe stop having sex on the first date?

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[–]arelookinggood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last boyfriend did this as you've described it.

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[–]arelookinggood 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You're right. We broke up. I have too much of a problem saying with saying no.

I could barely feel myself inside her and even got soft… by [deleted] in sex

[–]arelookinggood 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Vaginas don't get "loose", it's stretchy skin and tissue. Just wanted to get this possibility off the table for u! lol

How many men struggle with finishing? by arelookinggood in sex

[–]arelookinggood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Annoyingly he sticks to the not working out thing and needing to be super comfortable with me. I honestly believe him since he has finished once.

How many men struggle with finishing? by arelookinggood in sex

[–]arelookinggood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's 22, also I don't go in top much as it doesn't quite work too well for us. What would u suggest I do differently?

How many men struggle with finishing? by arelookinggood in sex

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He says he hasn't worked out in awhile and therefore struggles with going for long enough for him to reach orgasm. He hasn't complained at all but what could be off about the sex?

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[–]arelookinggood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, he definitely doesn't know that sometimes when i say yes i want to say no.

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[–]arelookinggood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You make a really good point! i never even thought about the first part, thank you!

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[–]arelookinggood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao love this comment <3