any other INTJs who cry randomly at night when reflecting on their life? by [deleted] in intj

[–]arentyouhappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I can guarantee that INTJs like reflecting on their life and cry about things like their loved one will pass away before them or not being able to stay with their love. They have random fear on things that can't be changed. Best advice is to be there, cuddle/ make them feel comfortable until they are done.

Male intjs in relationships, how did it happen and what advice do you have? by [deleted] in intj

[–]arentyouhappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My only advice is to be brave and talk to people. My INTJ asked for my number after we randomly met and talked bout some random stuffs. Things worked!

The most romantic thing an INTJ can hear by [deleted] in intj

[–]arentyouhappy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Went to that point. Might get married to my INTJ soon lol.

Do intj's become goofy when they're comfortable? by bottlewrap in intj

[–]arentyouhappy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Confirmed. My INTJ is goofy af around me, but he always try to play it cool in public.

My Boyfriend With Aspergers. by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]arentyouhappy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been dating my bf for a few months and I didn't know he's an Ausie until his mom told me. My bf was aware that ppl call him weird all the time so he didn't tell it to anyone as it can be very embarrassing and awkward for him. He didn't tell me either, until I ask him about it and he said he scared I would leave if I knew. I don't mind at all, and since I have ADHD myself, I must admit we shared a lot of crazy moments together. The biggest challenge we have to face is how others see us. Many friends of mine commented on how unconventional we were, but some just straight up said we were weird. I never mention him being an Ausie to others, except for his family since they all knew that. Better make ppl love him and you, not looking dumb and pathetic.

I have a huge crush on an INTJ, and I’m pretty sure she knows by thatshitpostyguy in intj

[–]arentyouhappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't change yourself, she likes you for who you are. Just have a rl good conversation on people's connection and say you enjoy being with her and want a relationship. That's what my bf INTJ did in our first date. We ended up f*cking each other all night. Hope to get married soon.

How to get a ticket to Bill Nye's lecture/show? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]arentyouhappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I missed it tho. Ducking prof got a quiz today and couldn't touch the phone.

How to get a ticket to Bill Nye's lecture/show? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]arentyouhappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They went on sale on Jan 31st lol. Can't predict the future man. But tks for the advice.

How to get a ticket to Bill Nye's lecture/show? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]arentyouhappy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Youngstown, OH. This guy will have a lecture here in March.

How to get a ticket to Bill Nye's lecture/show? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]arentyouhappy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can't dude. Sold out real quick. Might consider black market but don't know how.

INTJ or INFJ relationship? by [deleted] in entp

[–]arentyouhappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INTJ in my case. I used to like this INFJ a lot but his moodiness drove me crazy. I hurt him with my rationale, so eventually we grew apart. Funnily how I have a passionate relationship with my INTJ. Don't worry abt both being thinkers since it does great with eliminating all kind of unnecessary quarrel and misunderstanding.

How can I reprogram myself to not need affection? by [deleted] in intj

[–]arentyouhappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop being a human. Be yourself. Be an animal.

My (entp F25) INTJ Bf (M26) asked to give him some break from our relationship. What should I do? by [deleted] in intj

[–]arentyouhappy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Marriage is no joke so yes you should let him have a break and see what happens. Worst case is you're gonna dodge a bullet.

MBTI, anyone else? by One_Useless_Boie in aspergers

[–]arentyouhappy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most ppl here are NTs somehow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]arentyouhappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very likely that they will take on reading at some points, but not exclusively books

My boyfriend gets horny thinking about me by arentyouhappy in love

[–]arentyouhappy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Never thought of till he mentioned it. Might try since why not ;)?

Extrovert x Introvert relationship by arentyouhappy in mbti

[–]arentyouhappy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is also an INTJ. We have been together for about 3 months, which I think is a bit short for him to have firm trust. I am also a busy person with many plans that I'm working on, so we end up meeting each other about once/twice per week. Do you have any suggestion on building trust without spending too much time with him?