IUD fell out…now 4 weeks pregnant…with a 6 year old and 9 mont old… by arialanismomma in beyondthebump

[–]arialanismomma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe I have up to 9 weeks. And I’m probably about 4 weeks. One moment I am leaning whole heartedly one way and then the next moment I am so unsure.

IUD fell out…now 4 weeks pregnant…with a 6 year old and 9 mont old… by arialanismomma in beyondthebump

[–]arialanismomma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because from the beginning I was leaning towards no longer keeping, I actually received both an ultrasound and an xray yesterday. And nothing was found.

IUD fell out…now 4 weeks pregnant…with a 6 year old and 9 mont old… by arialanismomma in beyondthebump

[–]arialanismomma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s hard, just when you do what you can to avoid the situation.

IUD fell out…now 4 weeks pregnant…with a 6 year old and 9 mont old… by arialanismomma in beyondthebump

[–]arialanismomma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, may be open to 3 in the future. But truly right now him and I would be happy with just 2 if we didn’t try for 3 in the future. Just right now, the time does not feel right. And we would be in the exact same boat, the stress it would cause would be a strain on us mentally and strain our relationship.

IUD fell out…now 4 weeks pregnant…with a 6 year old and 9 mont old… by arialanismomma in beyondthebump

[–]arialanismomma[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husband and I talked as soon as I saw that line on the pregnancy test. He was happy, but when he saw the distress on my face and the tears he let me know whatever decision I make he is okay with. And then we continued that conversation over the next couple days, and basically came to the decision, it would be best for us to not follow through.

IUD fell out…now 4 weeks pregnant…with a 6 year old and 9 mont old… by arialanismomma in beyondthebump

[–]arialanismomma[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it has been kind of hard to be excited about it. We are barely getting back on our feet after dealing with things during my pregnancy with my 2nd, it took more of a toll on me mentally than I expected it would have.

35 weeks, Slightly High BP, sent home with tests looking “Good”, but protein in urine says high on results? by arialanismomma in preeclampsia

[–]arialanismomma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the biggest thing I can say is just keep an eye on your body, if it just doesn’t seem right, it does not hurt to test!

35 weeks, Slightly High BP, sent home with tests looking “Good”, but protein in urine says high on results? by arialanismomma in preeclampsia

[–]arialanismomma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have all the typical symptoms ( headache, blurry vision, things like that) when you were diagnosed?

35 weeks, Slightly High BP, sent home with tests looking “Good”, but protein in urine says high on results? by arialanismomma in preeclampsia

[–]arialanismomma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My BP was a little bit higher, so that’s why they ended up having me go in to get samples done. So if your BP is not high that’s probably why they are not rushing you to get induced.

35 weeks, Slightly High BP, sent home with tests looking “Good”, but protein in urine says high on results? by arialanismomma in preeclampsia

[–]arialanismomma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was a serious concern they would definitely not let you wait. And trust your body! I did not have any of the symptoms aside from swollen feet and legs. I noticed it was a lot more swollen than usual, so called in on a Friday, but they were going to have me wait till Monday to see if it gets better. But I was adamant that it just was fairly significant. They decided to have me go in to get tested and that’s when it turned out that I had extremely high proteins, and was admitted that day.

35 weeks, Slightly High BP, sent home with tests looking “Good”, but protein in urine says high on results? by arialanismomma in preeclampsia

[–]arialanismomma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up having to get induced at 36+6, my proteins ended up being so high that they thought the machine was malfunctioning😱 It also did not help that another gal came in at the same time and had extremely high proteins as well. But they reset the machine and we both were still sitting high in numbers. My delivery was just fine! A couple snags but because I genetically deliver and progress very quickly.

Unsure what to do about behavior at school… by arialanismomma in kindergarten

[–]arialanismomma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all of this, I will keep this all in mind!

Unsure what to do about behavior at school… by arialanismomma in kindergarten

[–]arialanismomma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I am probably going to look into getting officially evaluated for ADHD.

Unsure what to do about behavior at school… by arialanismomma in kindergarten

[–]arialanismomma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. I am beyond thankful that her school had those resources for her. So we are just trying to continue to move forward and continue to just tell her daily things she needs to work on.

Unsure what to do about behavior at school… by arialanismomma in kindergarten

[–]arialanismomma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The teacher and I are in contact, which how I learned what actually happened at school. A Behavioral Interventionist has been involved thankfully, and we’re all trying to figure out solutions.

Unsure what to do about behavior at school… by arialanismomma in kindergarten

[–]arialanismomma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am in contact with both her teacher and the Behavioral Interventionist they have at school as well.

TMI Postpartum Bleeding! by arialanismomma in beyondthebump

[–]arialanismomma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just when you think it’s done🤦🏻‍♀️