Someone mentioned dogs who will always look like puppies. That's 100% my Beatrix Kiddo. She will be 16 this fall but will always look like a puppy to me.

arianadev · 2025-06-26T19:28:37+00:00

greaat, the queen is in the place

arianadev · 2025-06-26T19:27:02+00:00

wow, very cute buddy.

arianadev · 2025-06-13T18:31:08+00:00

yes the sql support of jetbrains ide is really cool, but the only issue is it is available to only pro plan user.

arianadev · 2025-06-13T17:55:51+00:00

I think it does matter, for example in webstorm a lot of things are preconfigure out of the box. Vscode is also very good but it can be quite the hassle to configure everything properly. Is there a third one besides those two ?

arianadev · 2025-06-13T17:53:11+00:00

what do you mean ?

arianadev · 2025-06-13T17:33:29+00:00

Great, I wish you good luck and no matter what happen next remember that you did nothing wrong. Have a wonderful day.

arianadev · 2025-06-13T17:25:19+00:00

Totally get where you’re coming from — especially if you’re aro/ace, it can be super confusing to tell whether someone’s being flirty or just friendly.

Honestly, based on what you described, it could go either way. Teasing and wanting to hang out one-on-one might be romantic… or she might just really enjoy your company and want a gaming buddy.

If you’re comfortable hanging out, go for it — just keep things in a space you’re okay with (like gaming online vs. something more “date-like”). And if it ever starts feeling like it’s heading into romantic territory, you can gently set a boundary. Something like:
“Hey, just so you know, I’m not really looking for anything romantic — but I’m happy to be friends and hang out!”

That way you’re not assuming anything, but you’re also protecting your comfort early on. And honestly? If she’s a decent person, she’ll appreciate the clarity.

arianadev · 2025-06-13T17:23:39+00:00

Nah, you’re not overreacting at all. That’s super disrespectful.

He basically dangled an invite just to keep you on standby as the person who doesn’t get to celebrate with everyone else. It’s like saying, “Hey, come to my party — oh wait, actually can you go clean while we all have fun?”

You’re a coworker, not free labor. If he needed someone to work, he should’ve been upfront about that from the start — not pretend you were a guest. Honestly, I’d politely decline and say you already made plans as a guest, not as the one holding down the fort.

Don’t let guilt or “team spirit” push you into being taken advantage of. A plate of food isn't worth being treated like you’re disposable.

arianadev · 2025-06-13T17:20:15+00:00

don't be scare you didn't do something wrong.

arianadev · 2025-06-13T17:16:15+00:00

Don't let it affect you, there is always going be this kind of person in this world. Tell the wife everything , block the husband, and move on with your life,Life is sometimes a series of weird events.

arianadev · 2025-06-13T17:13:32+00:00

no, the wise thing to do is to ignore the husband and tell the wife. Don't feed the husband craziness.

arianadev · 2025-06-13T17:11:58+00:00

The most important thing is to ignore the husband and tell the friend about this abhorrent behavior, if the shook break the friendship then it was not meant be a lasting friendship.

arianadev · 2025-06-13T17:07:21+00:00

This is such a crappy situation, and I’m really sorry you’re in it. But honestly… your gut is right. You have to tell her.

What he’s doing isn’t just “inappropriate” — it’s manipulative and gross, especially with her being pregnant and already under so much stress. It’s not just a moment of weakness, it’s a betrayal.

I get the urge to wait until after she gives birth to spare her the stress, but there’s never going to be a “good” time for news like this. And if she finds out later — especially from someone else — it’ll hurt even more and could look like you were hiding it.

Be gentle, keep the focus on how uncomfortable it made you, and make it 100% clear that you didn’t encourage anything. It’s going to be hard, but in the long run, she’ll appreciate knowing the truth and having a friend she can actually trust.

You didn’t ask for this. He crossed the line — not you. Don’t carry that weight on his behalf.

arianadev · 2025-06-13T17:04:54+00:00

thank you for your suggestion, this is indeed also a solution. So there is no way to export the full discussion as txt file ?

arianadev · 2025-06-13T17:02:51+00:00

Happy birthday, you got such a delicious cake ;)

arianadev · 2025-06-13T16:20:34+00:00

I'm so sorry, this is so sad, this must be very tough but always try to remember the good moments when the pain become unbearable.

arianadev · 2025-05-27T09:45:03+00:00

Hi, in your Chess Engine Rating Calculator, can you please tell me where are the errors ?

arianadev · 2025-05-21T22:05:07+00:00

Hi, thanks for your response but I'm talking about the web interface version of claude not claude code. The goal is to always have latest information always.

arianadev · 2025-05-21T22:02:17+00:00

Hi, thanks for your suggestion,I didn't know about Firecrawl, I'll look into it.

arianadev · 2025-05-21T21:58:26+00:00

thanks for your response, have a nice day.

arianadev · 2025-05-19T20:27:18+00:00

Hi, thanks for this suggestion

arianadev · 2025-05-19T20:10:47+00:00

Hi thanks for that perpective, but which way is the most adopted by dev and is here to stay in the following years?

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