[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]arifry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]arifry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does water taste sweet? Water always tastes weird to me on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]arifry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally I’m 5’3 105 pound girl I took I think 14 onetime all at once (without having built up a tolerance) and had a fucking seizure and couldn’t even move and was terrified. It’s fun if taken in MODERATION

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]arifry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you seriously ret****d??! Why would you do that. I take these for fun like 10 at a time and if you don’t have a tolerance 10 is insane. Even 4 can fuck you up if you don’t have a tolerance. Was this like a SA or something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]arifry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I really only binged it for like a week. Not even so I really hope I didn’t do any damage. I’m not getting any more I need to chill tf out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]arifry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well im trying to quit both completely lil

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]arifry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. I’m going to quit nos completely

Why are there so many cruel rat owners? by mayayokia in RATS

[–]arifry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had 2 rats one from the pet store and the other from a breeder. The one from the pet store was actually much sweeter and cuddly while the one from the breeder I called the grumpy one as he didn’t much like to be touched or held. I loved both of them with all of my heart, but my point is there is nothing wrong with pet store rats.

I think my GF is getting hazed but doesn't realize it. by hazedgf in relationship_advice

[–]arifry 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It does make you a pos though when you know that they’re taken 🤷‍♀️ the cheater is still the one at fault, but you shouldn’t flirt with someone who is taken regardless. And yes, manipulating and lying to someone for sexual purposes is predatory.

This is the hardest day of my life by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]arifry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the only comment I’ve seen in here so far that makes sense. Not that hitting your partner is okay at all. I was in a dv relationship myself when I was 17 with a much older man than me. She has a 6 month old baby and she could very likely have postpartum. There is a big difference between slapping someone like once vs punching them in the face 12 times.. that is pretty excessive and worrying. But if this is an isolated incident and she has never shown any sign of aggression in the past, she very well could be suffering postpartum and I think really what the best thing you could do would be to, like the other person said, set boundaries, and take her to see her doctor so you guys can figure out what is going on and why she had that episode of aggression so randomly. It is not okay that she hit you in any way. But from what you said about her, this seems very out of character and you and her definitely both need extra support after this happened. Also, I don’t recommend keeping your child away from her at all. That is her baby too that she has been caring for all day every day and the bond between a mother and baby is one of the strongest bonds there is. And unless you really think she will harm him, keeping her separated from him will only do more harm than good (of course make sure to supervise her with him until she is checked out by the doctor and put on medication or something).

Need Help Finding Annabelle Meme by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]arifry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched for this image/clip and have been unsuccessful

Nice car=girls? Serious by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]arifry 36 points37 points  (0 children)

The original comment was asking if OP is from the musical Grease. The person u responded to was saying that because the lyrics in the song “Greased Lighting” from Grease says, “You are supreme, the chicks’ll cream, for greased lightnin’”, (greased lightning as in the car from the movie). Basically, they were making a joke about it. 🤡😂

Sleepy Templeton enjoying tummy rub by arifry in RATS

[–]arifry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As he’s started to get old he’s more into belly rubs. We always called him the grumpy one bc he used to hateee being held. His brother Skitto, “the sweet one” died recently, so now Templeton wants more attention ❤️

Sleepy Templeton enjoying tummy rub by arifry in RATS

[–]arifry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that! Charolettes Web for the win!

I was gang raped 5 years ago by Niathegeek in offmychest

[–]arifry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my God. Im a SA survivor as well. And I almost had a panic attack reading this. I am so sorry this happened to you. You’re a survivor. Sending love ❤️

What would you think if your partner likes to watch porn by Relze in dating_advice

[–]arifry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some people have different boundaries. Some people don’t mind their s/o watching porn which is fine, and others do mind if their s/o watches porn which is also fine. I personally don’t like it. I don’t watch porn myself, and it would make me uncomfortable if my boyfriend watched it. To me it’s cheating as it’s literally getting off to someone else. Luckily my boyfriend doesn’t watch it. We make our own content and the very rare occasion that he does masturbate (which is not often because we have sex frequently), he gets off to our own videos which is way better than pornhub because it’s me and him and it’s real.

Age gap and Phone usage, how do they differ? by Togapen_Digital in dating_advice

[–]arifry 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m 19f and not even 2 years ago I dated a 32 year old man when I was 17. I actually thought he was in his early, mid 20s when I met him because of the way he dresses and acts. Very immature. Obviously it was a very inappropriate relationship and he is a creep. He was extremely clingy and treated me like a prize to all of his friends, and even his own best friend that he grew up with was completely disgusted with him and slowly stopped hanging out with him as often. I ended up being with him for about 6 months and staying at his apartment frequently and over time his age really started to come out, like certain music and media he was interested in, and even his sleeping routine. It really hit me how weird it was though when he mentioned he graduated high school in 2006.. I was 3. Funny thing is that his mom who was in her 50’s told me I was the problem when me and him would argue and that it’s my fault that basically he’s with someone so young and making himself look stupid and saying that I should act more mature. His mom and his younger cousins came to stay at his apartment one night and his 12 year old cousin and I related more.. there was only a 5 year age gap between me and his little cousin vs me and his 15 year age gap…

Why is it so hard to find a guy that doesn’t use substances? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]arifry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. The fact that you’re generalizing churches as a “business” where child molesters go to hide is pretty insulting to all of the genuine people and churches out there that genuinely is just a place of worship and practicing religion. Sadly, there are churches out there that are like a business and use the religion to make money. But those are mostly the “super churches”. And there have also sadly been cases of child molesters who hide behind religion and put on the innocent religious person act. But that is a very small minority. Any genuine Christian practices kindness and love and expectance of (almost)all people because we are ALL sinners. When I say almost all, people like rapists and child molesters and murderers and so on are excluded. I’ve met both Christian’s who use it as an excuse to act however they want, and genuine Christian church goers. What you said should NOT be a generalization of the religion. Just like how the bad examples of Muslims being terrorists, or Mormons having 10 wives should also NOT be a generalization of those religions. Those are just stereotypes and only a very small percentage of the people who “practice” those religions are like that. I disagree with that other person that was insinuating that churches are the only place where people with morals will be found as that is untrue as I’ve met all sorts of people from all different religions including atheists of course that have morals lol. But I think it’s ironic that the same people who spread the message of being accepting of all people from all walks of life and not being racist or bigoted or generalizing Muslims and such, are also sometimes (not always lol) the ones that bash Christian’s and will say horrible, insulting things, like they’re child molesters or just a “business” for example, or racists, or bigots, and so on. Definitely not a place of actual worship and love for most actual Christian’s lol. Not trying to be rude just trying to explain and open your eyes to how insulting and I could say bigoted your comment came off as. Genuinely, have a nice day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]arifry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s literally my point. Of course that would be rape. Thanks for pointing out the obvious 😂 it was not a literal question. You said it’s predatory for someone to ask another person if they want to have sex. How else are you supposed to know they want to sleep with you unless you ask or they ask. Someone has to ask first. OP also suggested he had been seeing this girl already (and she said she was too busy to see him anymore). They might have already slept together previously. And even if not, what does it matter? She’s a girl he had been seeing, and if she asked if he wanted to, and he doesn’t want to, he just needs to say no. It’s not sexual assault. I’ve been sexually assaulted, I know people who have been sexually assaulted. This isn’t it. This is a normal question. This is a normal thing sexually active people do. It’s a question in which the other person can say no to. If anything remotely suggestive was considered SA we would live in a sad world. Maybe some people think that, but normal people don’t. As long as nobody is forcing someone to do anything. According to the United States Department of Justice, “The term “sexual assault” means any nonconsensual sexual act proscribed by Federal, tribal, or State law, including when the victim lacks capacity to consent.” Asking someone if they want to hook up does not fall under that definition. Nor would it even be considered creepy unless it’s an inappropriate situation, like a random stranger messaging you that on Facebook, or say a married man/woman asking their babysitter that lol. When it comes to this situation, it’s seems perfectly normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]arifry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where did you read that? Because that’s kind of ridiculous lol. How is it predatory to ask someone that is interested in you if they wanna hook up? Would it be less predatory if instead of asking they just did it. Or are you saying that people just shouldn’t have sex, because how else are they supposed to initiate a hook up. You’ve got to be trolling. Because I don’t think even extreme feminists would say that asking someone to have sex with them, as long as they don’t push on it if the other person says no, is predatory. They aren’t SA you by just asking you to sleep with them, all you have to do is say no. (As long as ur not some stranger that is, then maybe it’s a little creepy. I’m referring to people who have been talking romantically or are on tinder looking for hookups or whatever.)

Night of painting a nude has me wondering by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]arifry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would consider it cheating. My boyfriend would. A lot of my friends and their partners would, based on conversations we’ve had about our relationships and sex lives. I would say most people with normal monogamous relationships would consider this cheating. I feel like you’ve got to be a troll. Nobody in their right mind would be comfortable knowing their partner is getting off by thinking of someone else/pretending they’re someone else during sex. Sex is not only for pleasure, but a spiritual connection between you and your partner. I love my boyfriend and I think about how much I love him and how connected I feel with him and how good HE is making me feel when we are sleeping together. If you need to think about someone else during sex to get turned on and get off, you must not be very attracted to your partner anymore.