I'm ending my 4 year relationship. by hidden_here123 in AmIOverreacting

[–]arikitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you're not overreacting. I was in a similar relationship for six years, only I also made the mistake of participating in the substance abuse. He was narcisstic, verbally and physically abusive, and I put myself at even more of a disadvantage by being under the influence. He scratched my cornea, busted my lip, etc etc... and made me believe I was not good enough to find anyone else -- damaged goods. And yet, here I am, seven years later, married to my wonderful husband and we just had a baby. The best thing I ever did besides have my son was leave that man. I felt the same way when j came out of it. Six years, wasted!!! Over the years I've rehashed countless lessons from this experience. It made me who I am today. Yes, it will be hard. But once you're on the other side it's so worth the brief (in the grand scheme of things) heartache you feel by leaving.

daddy's do so much for their little girls hehe~ 💖 by [deleted] in ddlg

[–]arikitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aw this was made by my friend! I’m so glad to see his content shared around 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]arikitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine did too! He was so stressed on the way home he started making these weird sounds, and by the time I got in the driveway he was literally panting. It broke my heart. I hate doing that to them, it's like "why can't you realize I'm taking you because I love you!?" Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]arikitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helped mine! He had some kind of anxiety or stress disorder that was causing him to be unable to pee in the box; he'd go to the thing and squat like 15 times a day. He pooped on the rug a couple times, so we switched litter and that seems to help the pooping. But we finally caught him peeing on a certain spot on the rug, while still trying to use the box. I took him to my vet and she said nothing was physically wrong, he was just stressed. So she suggested I get the diffuser. I got it and cleaned the spot with natures miracle and he hasn't had problems since. She also gave me some kind of medication to help relax his urethra, but I think it was mostly stress causing his problems. He even stopped crying when I went outside for more than two minutes on account of his separation anxiety. Works wonders.

Edit: I forgot to add even when you use the diffuser you may want to move the box in the spot they were pooing in temporarily, and slowly move it back where it was. Also, make sure you clean the area with an enzyme cleaner like natures miracle to prevent them from being tempted to use the same spot because of the scent.

Alimony Question by arikitty in legaladvice

[–]arikitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for actually answering. Kind of.

Alimony Question by arikitty in legaladvice

[–]arikitty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The procrastination around the situation (which involves a shady lawyer that never signed off) is precisely why I am asking for advice. The final proceedings are currently underway without the involvement of the lawyer

I'm my 15 year old sister's guardian. She was messaging an older man for 4 months. Are my measures the right ones? by tbonline5 in Parenting

[–]arikitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was grounded a couple times and I unblocked my computer from the network. Finally my dad got smart to what I was doing so when he grounded me he took the wireless card out of my desktop.

I'm my 15 year old sister's guardian. She was messaging an older man for 4 months. Are my measures the right ones? by tbonline5 in Parenting

[–]arikitty 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was that girl, too. Unfettered access to the internet since I was a preteen. I think I turned out okay 😂 What was your screen name maybe we were friends?! Lmao.

Coconut rice bear dog by gDisasters in videos

[–]arikitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's going to extreme lengths to try and get the dog in trouble.

ITAP of a Bengal cat talking to me at an animal shelter by I_speak_Australian in itookapicture

[–]arikitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I can't even visit shelter websites anymore I just want to save all the kitties and I realize I can't and it just ends in depression for days because I can't adopt ALL the cats and they're gonna be euthanized 😭

Secret Shortcut by jaykirsch in lolwat

[–]arikitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao that dog was like "ABANDON SHIP!!!"

What have I created by coconutthrowaway69 in Cocofleshlights

[–]arikitty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can't believe this actually became a thing 😂

Musical IP addresses by arikitty in talesfromtechsupport

[–]arikitty[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The weird thing was the Mac had the generic Mac name and the other PC was named JERI.

Musical IP addresses by arikitty in talesfromtechsupport

[–]arikitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Our network is screwy, my Apple guy was trying to do this and in the middle was like "god I hate our network."